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Peace Corps programs in Poland and Hungary, and then soon in Czechoslovakia, are and volunteers like Belle Rothberg, who has taught English to Spanish-speaking working people. To Belle and to all of you, we wish you Godspeed in this very important journey and wisdom and strength in the challenges ahead.

Ways to Express Condolence

There are many occasions when condolences are needed due to a death. There are also several ways of expressing condolence. You can send flowers, a gift, or a sympathy card. You can also donate money to a charity they supported, write in a condolences book, take food to the family of the deceased, or offer to help them in some other way.

The word "condolence" comes from the Latin "condolere," meaning "to suffer together." Sometimes the dictionary lists the word "pity" as a synonym, but "comfort," "commiseration," "sympathy," and "consolation" are better synonyms. It really means acknowledging a loss, showing sympathy, and empathizing with someone.

Expressing What You Feel

It's common to feel at a loss for words when something sad has happened in a friend or family member's life. Hopefully, these condolence examples will help you express how you feel and bring comfort to those in need:

  • Words seem inadequate to express our sadness over ___.

  • May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.

  • We are deeply sorry to hear about the passing of ___.

  • ___ brought so many gifts to our life. We will never forget ___.

  • May you take comfort in knowing an angel is watching over you now.

  • Words cannot even begin to express our sorrow. You are in our prayers.

  • With deepest sympathy on the recent passing of ___.

  • We are saddened to hear of your sudden loss.

  • Our hearts are with you in this time of sorrow.

  • Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your loved one.

  • Words can't express how saddened we are to hear of your loss.

  • I can't imagine the sadness you must be feeling from your loss.

  • Words fall short of expressing my sorrow for your loss.

Here are some condolences that are a little more formal and a bit longer:

  • Hold tight to memories for comfort. Lean on your friends for strength. And always remember how much you're loved.

  • Although no words can ease the loss you bear, know you're very close in our thoughts and prayers.

  • May the peace that comes from the memories of your love comfort you now and in the days ahead.

  • Please accept our heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

  • We share your grief in this time with deep sympathy and condolences.

  • As you grieve, know we're remembering you and honoring the memory of ___.

  • In sorrow, we mourn those we've lost. In gratitude, we embrace those around us. In sympathy, we reach out to those who grieve.

Offering Comfort

It can be helpful to remind the person who's grieving that he or she isn't alone and others will miss their loved one as well. Here are some examples for these situations:

  • Just know that my arms are wrapped around you during this time of loss.

  • Their greatest joy was making others happy.

  • This planet will not be the same without ______.

  • May the sorrow you feel in your heart be lightened by the love that surrounds you.

  • If my hug was strong enough to take away your pain, I would start now and never stop.

Additional Quotes

Feel free to borrow from YourDictionary's collection of sympathy and death and dying quotes.

In the sympathy section, you might consider additions like, "What is lovely never dies," or, "Our souls sit close and silently within." Perhaps such sentiments will soothe your loved one's soul too.

If your friend or family member loves to read, especially the Harry Potter series, maybe you could tailor your condolence message with a simple line like, "Do not pity the dead, Harry. Pity the living, and, above all, those who live without love."

Touch the Tender-Hearted

In times that require condolence, it can feel like walking on eggshells. You want to tend to your tender-hearted loved one while - somehow - finding the right words. The above examples should help you gather your thoughts and soothe the soul a little.

Are you tasked with an even bigger request? Are you speaking at the funeral? This article will help you gather your thoughts and construct a speech that'll be well-received. Even if you're merely attending the funeral in solidarity, there are a few tips in there that will help you arrive with a clear mind and tongue that isn't tied.

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Seanfhocal na Seachtaine

Seanfhocal na Seachtaine

Is maith an bhean í ach níor bhain sí a broga di go foill.

She is a good wife, but she has not taken off her shoes yet.

Note: She is a good woman, but it is still quite early in the marriage. She has not taken off her shoes yet from the wedding. She has not yet gotten comfortable in her new situation. The wedding is still on her. Many Irish had only one pair of shoes in their possession. To preserve them, these poor people would only wear shoes at wakes, weddings, baptisms, fairs, and other special occasions. Other normal times, they would go about barefoot. Therefore, when a wife took off her shoes, it was a sign that she had settled in to normal times. When she is truly settled is the time to say whether she is a good woman or not. But the Scots have another proverb, "Am fear a labhras olc mu mhnaoi, tha e cur mi-cliù air fhèin." (Who speaks ill of his wife dishonors himself.)

Ná gabh bean gan locht.

Do not take a wife without fault.

Note: This proverb seems to be exclusive to Goidelic Celts. It has only been found in Irish and Scots Gaelic. "Na gabh tè air bith mar mhnaoi ach tè air am bi athais agad. (Take no woman for a wife in whom you can not find a flaw.)" The reason is simple; a woman without fault does not exist. It is better to find the fault before the wedding than after. By the way, a man without fault does not exist either. Even a wise man has faults. "Ní bhíonn saoi gan locht."

Ní féasta go rósta, ‘is ní céasta go pósta.

There is no feast like a roast, and no torment like a marriage.

Note: Although your spouse might not like this seanfhocal, it is socially acceptable because it rhymes so nicely.

Folaíonn grá gráin.

Love veils ugliness.

Note: The ancient Romans often depicted Cupid, their god of love, as blindfolded because love was thought to be blind. The more common image of Cupid as a winged boy shooting arrows was actually taken from earlier Greek images of Eros, their god of love. But the Greeks also knew that love was blind. Eros was thought to randomly fire his arrows into the hearts of lovers. So no one could explain where their heart led them.

I have heard of reasons manifold
Why love must needs be blind,
But this the best of all I hold --
His eyes are in his mind.
     Coleridge, Reason for Love's Blindness, 1828.

Some pundits have noted that love is blind but marrage restores sight.

Is geal leis an bhfiach dubh a ghearrcach féin.

The raven thinks its own nestling fair.

Note: This week's seanfhocal is a generalization of the English proverb, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." (Margaret Wolfe Hungerford, Molly Bawn, 1878.) Perhaps, closer to the mark is the aphorism, "A mother's pride, a father's joy." (Sir Walter Scott, Rokeby, 1813, canto III, st. 15.) Nature blinds the parent to any imperfections of its offspring. This is a lesson every teacher learns early in a career.

For a demonstration of this phenomenon, visit any sporting event organized for children and watch the parents. Parents have been known to assault other parents at such games over wrongs perceived upon their progeny. One youth league even requires the parents to sign a parental code of conduct before they will admit a child to the program.

Note also: An ancient Druid idiom is embedded in this week's seanfhocal. Druids worshipped the sun. Nothing could be more pleasing to Druids then to have the sun shine on them. Therefore, to express pleasure with something, it is customary in the Irish language to say that it is bright with you, i.e., like the sun, it shines on you. For example, this week's proverb literally says, "Its own nestling is bright with the raven."

Consider other examples. Is geal an scéal liom é. (It is glad news to me. Literally: The story, it [is] bright with me.) Ní geal leat é. (You don't like him. Literally: He is not bright with you.) Is geal leis a bhfeiceann sé. (He likes what he sees. Literally: What he sees is bright with him.) Note the pattern, "Is geal le ..." (Is bright with ...)

The same pattern is also used with the Irish verb for shine, taitin. With the preposition 'le' (with), taitin is used to express pleasure. Thaitin do theach liom. (I liked your house. Literally: Your house shined on me.) Taitníonn sé leis na daoine. (The people are fond of him. Literally: He shines on the people.) Another way of expressing pleasure is to use the verbal noun of taitin, teatneamh. Níl sé i mo thaitneamh. (I don't like it. Literally: It is not in my shining [or brightness].) Finally, one of the many ways to say, "I love you." in Irish is "Mo thaitneamh thú." (Literally: My brightness [is] for you.)

Níl aon leigheas ar an ngrá ach pósadh.

There is no cure for love but marriage.
(The only cure for love is marriage.).

Note: This comes in handy as a wedding toast. The double meaning is sure to both please and bemuse simultaneously.

Lá Nollaig go péacach is Lá Féile na Stiofáin ag iarraidh déirce.

A showy Christmas Day and begging on the Feast of St. Stephen.

Note: St. Stephen was the first Christian martyr whose feast day is the day after Christmas. It is a national holiday in Ireland, but its roots go back beyond Chritianity. The tradition is for children to go "hunting the wren" on St. Stephen's Day. It is killed and its corpse, or its effigy, is put on a pole, or sometimes in a basket. "The wren boys" go from home to home displaying the dead bird and begging for money "to bury the wren." At the door step of each home the 'Bean an Tí' (the woman of the house), is beseeched,

The wren, the wren, the King of all birds,
     St. Stephen's Day was caught in the furze.
So up with the kettel and down with the pan,
     and give us a penny to bury the wren.

The house that is least generous is likely to have the wren buried under their door step. Killing the wren is considered a good omen, because the wren is believed to be a treacherous bird. Some believe that it was a chattering wren who betrayed St. Stephan's hiding place. An old Druid story tells of how the birds had a contest to determine who was king of the birds. Whoever flew the highest would be coronated. The wren hid in the back of the eagle. When it was his turn, the eagle soared higher than any other bird. However, when fatigue would let him climb no higher, the wren emerged rested and climbed to the greatest height. So by treachery, the wren became "the king of all birds."

Is í an eorna nua tú a fheiceáil.

Seeing you is like seeing the new (season's) barley.

Note: This is a very enthusiastic expression one would use to greet a favorite friend or relation not seen for a while. Although we translated this seanfhocal as a simile, it is actually a metaphor. (A more literal translation is: "You are the new barley to see.") This agrarian metaphor is a reminder of the time when the harvest was anticipated by the whole community. Homegrown barley bread would be a welcome change from the usual potatoes and Indian meal. Of course, the "juice of the barley ", poteen (poitín as Gaeilge), would be enjoyed at the harvest celebration of Lughnasa.

Note also: This is another example of fronting. Fronting is a grammatical structure where the copula, 'is', is used with an inverted word order to emphasize one part of a sentence over another part. We saw a fronted adjective, 'Is TEANN gach madra gearr . . .' (i.e.: 'It's BOLD that every terrier is . . .'), emphasized before. Here we have a fronted noun, 'eorna'. But it is a definite noun, "an eorna". The copula is never followed immediately by a definite noun. The correct pronoun must separate them. In this case, the definite noun is feminine, so the pronoun must be feminine. "Is í an eorna nua tú a fheiciáil."

Síleann do chara agus do namhaid nach bhfaighidh tú bás choíce.

[Both] your friend and your enemy think you will never die.

Note: You are immortal to your friends because they wish it. So it is that one wishes one's friend a common blessing in Ireland, "Go maire tú an céad." (May you live to a hundred.)

On the other hand, every instant of your existence is anathema to your enemies. As the Romans used to say, "The body of a dead enemy smells sweet." Even though it may seem an interminable wait, a Spanish proverb suggests patience. "El que se sienta en la puerta de su casa verá pasar el cadáver de su enemigo." (He who sits by the door of his house will watch his enemy's corpse go by.)

Note also: This week's seanfhocal uses the word 'choíche' which means 'ever' or 'never' depending on the context. It is only used with a verb in the future tense, e.g., ... nach bhfaighfidh tú bás choíche. (... that you will never die). Otherwise the synonym 'riamh' is used, e.g., "Níor chuala mé an ráfla sin riamh." (I never heard that rumor.)

Is maith an scáthán súil charad.

A friend's eye is a good mirror.

Note: There is another seanfhocal that expresses a similar sentiment. "Ní cara gach bladaire." (Every flatterer is not a friend.) It is expected that one will often flatter a friend. Yet another seanfhocal tells us that: "Gineann bladar cradas". (Flattery begets friendship.) But a true friend will reflect our errors, our misjudgments, our shortcomings, ... when necessary.

Warning: If grammar makes your head hurt, just enjoy this seanfhocal as it is, and DO NOT read any further!

The word order in this seanfhocal is not the usual verb--subject--predicate, but verb--predicate--subject. This is because the copula, i.e., the verb 'is', is used with an indefinite predicate.

For example, in this case the predicate, 'a good mirror', is not specific. It does not tell the reader exactly which mirror is being discussed. Like many proverbs, this one is a metaphor, so it can be any good mirror. Since the predicate is indefinite, and the verb is the copula, then the "classification" rule for the copula requires that the predicate precedes the subject.

All forms of the copula with indefinite predicates put the predicate before the subject. We see this is in the negative form of this seanfhocal, "Ní cara gach bladaire." (Every flatterer is not a friend.)

On the other hand, when the copula is used with a definite predicate then the usual Irish word order applies.

Aithnítear cara i gcruatán.

A friend is known in hardship.

Note: Unlike a "fair weather friend" (who is no real friend at all), a true friend is one who stands by you in hard times.

Note also: If the verb tense here strikes you as being unfamiliar, it is the ever popular independent form of the present habitual.

Giorraíonn beirt bóthar.

Two people shorten a road.

Note: The Irish are a deeply communal people. If a trip is necessary, be it long or short, it is always preferable to have companionship.

Note also: The Irish word "beirt" refers to "two people". The Irish language uses personal numbers to designate from one to ten persons (and sometimes twelve). When counting people these special numbers must be used. The common numbers which are used to count mere things are not acceptable!

Castar na daoine ar a chéile, ach ní chastar na cnoic (ná na sléibhte).

The people encounter one another, but the hills never meet (nor the mountains).

Note: This is a bit ironic. The hills have all of the time in the world and spend their entire existence in sight of one another, but never get to consort with their own kind. Although we mere mortals may have our days numbered, we can pass them in the warmth of one another's company.

Maireann na daoine ar scáil a chéile.

The people live in one another's shadows.

Note: An English language saying expressing a similar thought is John Donne's "No man is an island". Human beings are by nature communal, and what happens to one member affects each member of the community. Although this relationship is not a physical manifestation of nature and can be as ephemeral as a shadow, its strenght and power are pervasive and profound.

A chomhairle féin do mhac árann ‘s ní bhfuair sé ariamh níos measa.

It does not get worse than a dear son that pleases himself.

Note: There is nothing so exasperating to parents then to have their wishes ignored by a beloved child. Parents want the best for their children. They want their children to benefit from their experience in the harsh realities of life. They want them to go to the right schools. They want them to enter the right profession. Then they want to kill them when they demonstrate a mind of their own.

There is little play on words in the Irish of this proverb. Literally, this proverbs means, "His own council for a dear son and it never got worse." "A chomhairle féin a dhéanamh" is an idiomatic way of saying "he does what he pleases." He only takes his own advice. Of course, from a parent's perspective, this is the worst advise he could get. He who takes his own council has a fool for a councilor.

Is minic ubh bhán ag cearc dhubh.

A black hen often has a white egg.

Note: This week's proverb is a little tongue in cheek. Of course, a black hen always lays a white egg. That is why you might hear a slight variant of this proverb, "Beireann cearc dhubh ubh bhán." (A black hen lays a white egg.) There is a similar Spanish proverb, "Tierra negra buen pan lleva." (Black land produces good bread.) Perhaps the closest English aphorism comes from Thomas Paine, "Whenever we are planning for posterity, we ought to remember that virtue is not hereditary." Common Sense, 1776.

Proverbs need not be consistent. Compare this week's proverb to "Briseann an dúchas trí shúile an chait. (Heredity breaks out in the eyes of the cat.) "Like father, like son." "The acorn never falls far from the tree." "The gods visit the sins of the fathers upon the children." Euripedes. In contrast to all these, this week's proverb makes the point that virtuous people can spring forth from un-virtuous ancestors.

This idea of good descended from evil is central to the 11th Century Irish epic, Caithe Maige Tuired (The Battle of Mag Tuired). It describes the primordial struggle in Ireland between good and evil, between a divine people, the Tuatha Dé Dannan, and the demonic band, the Fomhóire. Balor of the Evil Eye was the king of the Fomhóire. He gave his daughter, Eithne, to Cian, a young warrior of the Tuatha Dé Dannan. They had a son they named Lugh.

Under Balor, the Fomhóire were massing a formidable army to seize control of Ireland from the Tuatha Dé Dannan. Nuadhu, the King of the Tuatha Dé Dannan, was mustering an Army to resist them at Tara. Young Lugh went to Tara to join the warriors. He so impressed the king with his diverse skills as a warrior, poet, and artisan that Nuadhu gave Lugh command of his army.

Noble Lugh confronted his evil grandfather at Moytirra (in County Sligo). Balor only opened his evil eye in battle. Anyone who looked into it was destroyed. Before Balor could train his evil eye on him, Lugh hit the eye with a stone from his sling. It turned Balor's eye inward, immediately killing him, winning the battle and the war.

Is folamh fuar é teach gan bean.

A house without a woman is empty [and] cold.

Note: This is not to be confused with the English aphorism, "A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle". The word "man" does not appear in this week's seanfhocal. It is more a recognition that in Ireland women, traditionally, run the house. "Bean an tí" (the lady of the house, the mistress) made a house a home. The expression, "Bean an tí" is so laden with power and responsibility that it can also mean landlady. It would be an anomaly for a house to be without one. Without one, the turf fire might go out. Without one, the furniture might not exist. Without one, the groceries might not be gotten. Without one, the house would, indeed, be a cold and empty place.

Note also: This week's seanfhocal has two successive adjectives without a comma and without a conjunction like 'and', 'but' or 'or' between them. "Is folamh fuar é ..." This would be grammatically incorrect if it were to occur in an English sentence. However, in Irish, it is actually good form. This is especially true if you want to emphasize something by repeating adjectives that are synonyms, e.g., "Bhí sé beag mion". (It was small little.) The redundancy would be considered poor style in English. Perhaps this proscription is an expression of British reserve. On the other hand, in Irish, some traits are worth repeating.

Is fearr beagán den ghaol ná mórán den charthanas.

A little kinship is better than a lot of charity.

Note: Charles Dickens wrote, "But charity begins at home, and justice begins next door"(Martin Chuzzelwit 1850). John Ray wrote down the English proverb equivalent to this seanfhocal in his opus English Proverbs (1670), "Blood is thicker than water." John Wycliffe in his 1380 work Of Prelates ascribes to Theocritus the proverb "Charity begins at home."

Perhaps this seanfhocal came from Saint Patricks' bringing the Bible to the Irish. In Paul's First Epistle to Timothy he says,

"Ach má tá clann nó clann chlainne ag baintreach, tuigidís sin gurb é céad dualgas atá orthu cuidiú lena dteaghlach féin agus cúiteamh a dhéanamh lena dtuismitheoirí, mar gurb áil le Dia é sin." (If a widow has any children or grandchildren, let these learn that piety begins at home and that they should fittingly support their parents and grandparents; this is the way God wants it to be.) Tiomóid, 5:4.

Paul goes to warn

"an duine nach ndéanann aon chúram dá mhuintir agus do lucht a theaghlaigh féin go háirithe, tá an creideamh séanta aige agus is measa é ná an díchreidmheach. (If anyone does not provide for his own relatives and especially for members of his immediate family; he has denied the faith; he is worse than an unbeliever.) Tiomóid, 5:8.

Maybe Timothy brought this idea directly to the ancient Irish. Timothy ministered to the Ephesians. Ephesus was a city on the Aegean coast of modern Turkey. It was at the edge of an ancient Celtic community centered around what is now the city of Ankara.

Mol an páiste agus molann tú an mháthair.

Praise the child and you praise the mother.

Note: So, the mother gets all of the credit when the child turns out well. Presumably fathers are entitled to all of the fault when children go bad.

Note also: The two verbs in this seanfhocal are in the [1] imperative/order form (mol) and [2] the present habitual (molann). Although in Béarla these forms are identical (praise), Irish maintains very distinctive forms.

An mháthair leis an mac agus an iníon leis an athair.

The mother (sides) with the son, and the daughter with the father.

Note: This is a reference to the alleged tendency of Irish mothers to dote over their sons. It is even felt in some quarters that this tendency still prevails in Irish American families! Likewise, the seanfhocal notes a daughter's likelihood to side with her father. It is interesting to note that the seanfhocal speaks in terms of females, the mother and daughter. No mention is made of how the males behave in such situations, or even if the males are aware that such interpersonal dynamics exist.

Bíonn caora dhubh ar an tréad is gile.

There tends to be a black sheep (even) in the whitest flock.

Note: This seanfhocal brings to mind the familiar expression: "There's one in every crowd". It also softens the concept of someone as being "the black sheep of the family", since it implies that every family has one (if not several).

Níl aon tóin tinn mar do thóin tinn féin.

There's no sore ass like your own sore ass.

Note: The previous editor thought that this was an appropriate offering because it is a play on last week's seanfhocal: "Níl aon tinteán mar do thinteán féin". In his defense he noted that this is the most popularly known mock seanfhocal in Ireland. You will be pleased to know that the defense was unsuccessful, and he was stripped of his fáinne. The new editor is a Gaeilgeoir of impeccable moral character, and there will be no repeat of this indiscretion. Gabhaigí ár leithscéal.

Níl aon tinteán mar do thinteán féin.

There's no hearth like your own hearth.

Note: This is almost certainly the most widely known of all the Irish proverbs. It has the same meaning as the English version: "There's no place like home"; although it is not considered trite. Perhaps it is best that there is no 'as Gaeilge' version of The Wizard of Oz. If you only learn one seanfhocal this week, this should be the one.

Is é do mhac do mhac inniú, ach is í d’iníon d’iníon go deo.

Your son is your son today, but your daughter is your daughter forever.

Note: A familiar English language equivalent might be: "Your son is your son until he takes a wife, but your daughter is your daughter for the rest of her life."

Chíonn beirt rud nach bhfeiceann duine amháin.

Two people see a thing that an individual does not see.

Note: This can be taken on a superficial, physical level such as when people elicit the help of others to find a lost object or person. On another level, this seanfhocal refers to the deeper understanding which can be obtained when multiple people examine (consider) a problem or situation. "Two heads are better than one" as they say. The sharing of ideas and perspectives among a group of people can often develop insights which would otherwise have been missed by an individual.

Note also: In normal "running" speech, neutral vowel sounds tend to get "swallowed up". For instance, although the speaker here is pronouncing the words here deliberately and distinctly for your benefit, conversational speech would sound somewhat different. For example, the vowel sound at the end of the word "duine" and the vowel sound at the begining of the word "amháin" would overlap and be pronounced as a single sound. As a result the two words would sound almost like one word, "duin-a-mhain." This change is proper in Irish, and is not in any way equivalent to slurring in English. In general, neutral vowels tend to fall off the end of words that are followed by words beginning with another vowel.

Ní neart go cur le chéile.

There is no strength without unity.

Note: In Béarla the saying is that "A chain is only as strong as its weakest link". Since at least the time of Strongbow (and probably longer) disunity has left Ireland open to her enemies. This seanfhocal expresses the still unfulfilled dream of Irish unity, be it political or cultural.a

Go bhfága Dia do shláinte agat.

May God spare you your health.

Note: Literally, this proverbs means, "May God leave your health at you." This implies that if you lose your health it is because God has taken it away from you. God is an active agent in one's life. Please God and your health is spared. Anger God and your health could be withdrawn. According to an earlier proverb, live long enough and God will take it away from you in the Fiche bliain ag meath.

This idea of supernatural cause and natural effect goes back to the ancient Druids. Druids never composed anything comparable to the Book of Job. They never wondered why there is misery in life. Every thing in nature happens for a supernatural reason. Gods of the underworld controlled the seasons. Planting began only after asking these gods for permission. Harvesting had to be completed before the end of the season when the gods would take back the land. That is why is is still considered bad luck in some part of Ireland to eat wild berries after Lughnasa.

Ní bhíonn an rath, ach mara mbíonn an smacht.

There is no prosperity unless there is discipline.

Note: Irish makes frequent use of the definite article "the" before nouns which do not refer to physical/tangible objects. Here, for instance, the seanfhocal refers to "an rath" (literally "the prosperity") and "an smacht" (literally "the discipline/control"). Likewise, even when speaking English, it is often said that someone has "the Irish" (meaning the Irish language), which mirrors the Irish reference to "an Ghaeilge".

 

Go ndeine an diabhal dréimire de cnámh do dhroma ag piocadh úll i ngairdín Ifrinn.

May the devil make a ladder of your backbone [and] pluck apples in the garden of hell. 

Note: A great curse seeks to conjure the worst fate that can be conceived for the cursed. This week's proverb goes beyond the common curse, "Go to hell." May you go to hell and may you become a living ladder for the devil to climb in his garden. May his evil hooves crush your spine as he picks apples to lure your friends and relations to join you.

If Adam and Eve could not resist the devil's apples, what chance does your loved ones have? In addition to the pain, you would bear the guilt of being an instrument of the devil. Compared to this curse, simply going to hell would be a walk in the park.

Note also: The verb 'go ndeine' is the subjunctive form of the irregular verb 'dein.' 'Dein' is a variant of 'déan,' the standard form of the Irish verb meaning 'make' or 'do.' Its standard subjunctive form is 'go ndéana.' The subjunctive mood is used to the indicate situatuations that are contrary to fact. Consequently, the subjunctive mood is most often used to curse, to bless, and to pray.

Dia linn is deoch is ní raibh mé riamh bocht.

God with us and a drink, and may I never be poor.

Note: It has been said that Irish toasts are like prayers. This week's seanfhocal is a toast that follows in that tradition. Like most prayers it asks God for something. Like most prayers it uses the subjunctive mood to do this, i.e., 'go raibh' is the subjunctive mood for the verb 'be,' 'tá.' The subjunctive is used to express contra-factual ideas, like wishes.

For many Irish who emigrated to America, the wish to never be poor came true.

In the National Opinion Research Center's (NORC) 1977 and 1978 General Social Survey, 26% of families in America reported an annual income in excess of $20,000; of those who describe themselves as British Protestants, 30% reported more than $20,000 income; and 47% of the Irish-Catholic families reported more than $20,000 in income, a little higher than the 46% of Jewish families and 43% of Italian families.
Andrew M. Greely, The Irish Americans: The Rise to Money and Power, Warner Books, 1993, p.137.

The wish for a drink has come true too. Ach sin scéal eile.

Sláinte chuig na fir agus go maire na mná go deo!

Health to the men and may the women live forever!

Note: This is a popular toast that is often given in two parts. Typically the men will toast themselves first, "Sláinte chuig na fir." (Health to the men.) Irish protocol requires the women to give themselves a greater toast. So they wish themselves eternal health, "Go maire na mná go deo." (May the women live forever.) Some bodach (lout), who never has suffered the pain and never will, will often offer this play on words, this very proximate homophone, as a retort, "Go mbeire na mná go deo." (May the women give birth forever.)

In the south, one is more likely to hear a Munster version of this seanfhocal, "Sláinte na bhfear is go maire na mná go deo." In this version, the genitive plural is used, 'na bhfear' (of the men). The version above used the older dative plural, 'chuig na fir' (to the men), which used to be required by the preposition 'chuig' or 'chun'. However, to the delight of beginners and the despondency of purists, the dative form of the noun has practically disappeared from the Irish language. It survives in some old sayings.

Note also: The bodach's retort sounds almost like the woman's toast because of the Irish inflection called urú (eclipsis). Eclipsis occurs in certain grammatical contexts when an initial consonant is phonetically replaced by another consonant. For example, to form the subjunctive form of the verb 'beir' (give birth to), it is eclipsed, the vowel 'e' is appended, and the particle 'go' is put in front. The consonant 'b' is always eclipsed by the consonant 'm'. Eclipsis means that the 'm' is now pronounced instead of the 'b' in 'go mbeire' making the eclipsed 'b' silent. Therefore, 'go mbeire' is almost pronounced like 'go maire'. The verb 'go maire' is also in the subjunctive form. However, the letter 'm' is never eclipsed.

Ná bris do loirgín ar stól nach bhfuil i do shlí.

Do not break your shin on a stool that is not in your way.

Note: Don't go out of your way to get in trouble. Never trouble trouble until trouble troubles you. Do not meet troubles half way.

Are you come to meet your trouble?
The fashion of the world is to avoid cost, and you encounter it.
     William Shakespeare, Much Ado About Nothing.

Troubles are like the rough in golf; the trick is not staying out, but getting out after we are in.

Note also: This proverb has two negative verbal particles, ná and nach. Ná is used to give negative commands and does not require the following verb to be lenited or eclipsed. It will put an h before a following verb that begins with a vowel. Ná hól bainne géar. (Don't drink sour milk.) Nach can be used either as an interogatory verbal particle or as a relative verbal particle. In either case, it requires the following verb to be eclipsed.

Ná nocht d’fhiacla go bhféadair an greim do bhreith.

Don't bare your teeth until you can bite.

Note: There is another variation to this week's proverb. "Ná taispeáin d'fhiacail san áit nach dtig leat greim a bhaint amach." (Don't show your teeth where cannot give a bite. Literally: Don't show your teeth in a place you may not be able to take a bite out.) In Scots Gaelic, there is a slight variation. "Mur comas dut teumadh, na rùisg do dheudach." (If you cannot bite, don't show your teeth.) Sun Tzu knew this in 500 B.C. "He who knows when he can fight and when he cannot will be victorious." -- Sun Tzu, The Art of War, III, 25.

Note also: In the two Irish versions of this week's proverb, there are two different plural forms of the word 'fiacail,' namely 'fiacla' and 'fiacail.' The first is the official standard plural, 'fiacla.' You will see this standard in the Chois Fharraige dialect in county Galway. In parts of Donegal, you will see the non-standard plural, 'fiacail.' In these non-standard cases, the nominative sinular form is 'fiacal,' not 'fiacail.' This is not to say that Galway speakers always use the official standard. Such is not the case. In fact, nobody speaks the official standard. The official standard is a standard for spelling and grammar, not pronunciation. A standard pronounciation was proposed later called 'an Lárchanúint' (the core dialect), ach sin scéal eile.

Bhí clog sa chill is níor bhinn clog é. Ach tháinig clog eile ‘on cill is rinne clog binn den ch

There was a bell in the church and it wasn't very sweet sounding.
But another bell came to the church and made a sweet bell of the first one.

Note: This week's seanfhocal is a play on words and a parable. The word bell appears in two sentences as both the subject and the object of the sentence. In the first sentence, the clock in the church is not sweet. In the second it is. This word play seems designed to confuse. It begs the speaker to say it again.

The parable has a simple moral. No matter what the situation, it could always be worse. Or on this case, we have an example of Robert Burns' adage, "The best laid schemes o' mice and men gang aft a-gley." After all their planning, the parishioners are now saddled with another clinker.

Fóireann spallaí do bhallaí chomh maith le clocha móra.

Walls require spalls as well as large stones.

Note: Our thanks go to Brendan McSherry for this week's proverb. In is simplest sense it is a lesson in masonry. A spall or gallet is a small flake or chip of stone produced by splitting a larger stone. Practiced masons can create any size and shape chip they want. A deft blow of the hammer will create a chip to fit any whole in a wall. In fact, the word spall comes from the Old German word spell which means to split. Therefore, walls, especially walls made without mortar, need many of these chips if they are to stand for any length of time.

On a deeper level, it is a metaphor about society and about life. There is the American expression "all chiefs and no Indians" used to deride a group with all leaders and no followers. Such a situation is comically doomed to failure. You obviously need more of the latter than the former to be successful.

Wars may be fought with weapons, but they are won by men. It is the spirit of the men who follow and of the man who leads that gains victory.
      George S. Patton, In the Cavalry Journal, 1933.

Another interpretation of this metaphor concerns a healthy balance in life. It is easy to focus all of our attention on the big things in life and forget the little things. For example, many spend all their energy on advancing their careers. They lose sight of the little things in life, like watching your daughter's first goal in a soccer match, taking your son to the museum, or simply enjoying a quiet sunset. Their lives, like walls without spalls, will soon collapse under their own weight.

An té nach bhfuil láidir ní folair dó a bheith glic.

Whoever is not strong must be clever.

Note: The Scots have a similar proverb, "Wiles help weak folk." Celtic folklore is rich with stories of the clever overcoming the strong. Consider two other proverbs. Ní bhíonn tréan buan. (Strength is not enduring.) Ní thagann ciall roimh aois. (Sense does not come before age.) Given these cultural beliefs, it is not surprising that most of these tales involve clever old seers. The tradition spans centuries from the ancient mythic personification of wisdom, the sear Find in the Fionn mac Cumhaill sagas, to the later tales of Merlin the Magician.

If you hear this proverb, you might want to respond with a popular play on words, "Agus an tae nach bhfuil ládir ní folair dó a bheith te." (And the tea that is not strong must be hot.) In the original proverb, "an té" means "whoever," while in the rejoinder, the homophone, "an tae" means "the tea."

Note also: This proverb uses a common Irish idiom "ní foláir dó" which means "he must." If you look up the word "foláir" in your foclóir, you are likely to find it coupled with the negative particle "ní." It would probably translate "ní folair" as meaning "it is necessary." So "ní folair dó é" means "it is necessary for him" or more tersely, "he needs it." The phrase "a bheith glic" means "to be clever." Put these two together, "ní folair dó a bheith glic," and you literally get "it is necessary for him to be clever" or "he needs to be clever," or "he must be clever."

However, some may be troubled by this negative particle. To understand the negative particle, you need to know that 'folair' is a synonym for the noun "foráil" which means "superabundance, excess; too much." Therefore, "ní foláir dó é" then literally means "it is not too much for him." This is an indirect way of saying that he really needs it.

Más maith leat siocháin, cairdeas, agus moladh, éist, feic, agus fan balbh.

If you wish for peace, friendship, and praise, listen, look, and stay mute.

Note: Continuing last week's theme that silence is golden, we present a proverb that goes back to Roman times. The Latin version is, "Audi, vide, tace; si vis vivere in pace." (Listen, see, be silent; if you wish to live in peace.) It becomes apparent that French derived from Latin in this Gallic proverb, "Oye, vois, et te taise, Si tu veux vivre en paix." (Listen, look, and keep quiet, if you wish to live in peace.) Spanish has a more curt, imperative variation, "Ver, Oir, y callar." (Look, listen, and keep quiet.) Benjamin Franklin put a little twist on the theme,"He that speaks much, is much mistaken." (Poor Richard's Almanac.)

Ni théann cuileog san mbéal a bhíos dúnta.

A fly will not go into a mouth that is closed.

Note: The oral tradition of Ireland has always maintained that the Gael came to Ireland from Spain. Perhaps this week's proverb has the same author as this Spanish proverb, "En boca cerrada no entran moscas." (The closed mouth swallows no flies.) A similar Spanish proverb may have its origin in the bible, "El pez muere la boca." (The fish dies because he opens his mouth.)

Ní hé an machnamh is geal leis an amadán,
ach bheith ag tabhairt a thuairime os ard.
...
Tarraingíonn caint an amadáin aighneas air féin,
agus tugann a bhéal cuireadh chun é a léasadh.
Scriosann béal an amadáin é féin,
agus is gaiste dó a bheola.
          Leabhar na Seanfhocal, 18;2,7,8.

The fool takes no delight in understanding,
but rather in displayng what he thinks.
...
The fool's lips lead him into strife,
and his mouth provokes a beating.
The fool's mouth is his ruin;
His lips are a snare to his life.
          The Book of Proverbs, 18;2,7,8.

We have seen the idea of a mouth provoking a beating before. Is minic a bhris beál duine a shrón. (It's often that a person's mouth broke his nose.) Is minic a ghearr teanga duine a scornach. (It is often that a person's tongue cut his throat.) George Bernard Shaw adapted this theme to the English mouth. "It is impossible for an Englishman to open his mouth, without making some other Englishman hate or despise him; English is not accessible, even to Englishmen." Pygmalion, preface, 1913.

An rud nach mbaineann duit ná bain dó.

Don't interfere with [any] thing that doesn't concern you.

Note: This week's seanfhocal is universal, as many proverbs are. "Is onóir do dhuine aighneas a sheachaint, ach beidh gach amadán ag achrann." An Bíobla Naofa: Leabhar na Seanfhocal 20:3. (It is an honor for a person to cease from strife: but every fool will be meddling. The Holy Bible: The Book of Proverbs 20:3) "Let every man mind his own business." Don Quixote de la Mancha, Miguel de Cervantes 1605-1615. "'If everybody minded their own business,' said the Duchess in a hoarse growl, 'the world would go round a deal faster than it does.'" Alice in Wonderland, Lewis Carroll 1865. "Dirt nosed folks always want to wipe other people's noses." French proverb. "He who tastes everymans' broth sometimes burns his mouth." Danish proverb "It's ill meddling between the bark and the rind." Scottish proverb.

Note also: This seanfhocal exhibits the wide semantic range of Irish verbs and their semantic extension under the influence of prepositions. One of the difficulties students of Irish encounter early in their studies is the different semantic range of Irish and English words, i.e., the different meanings of a word. In this case the verb 'bain' has many different meanings. By itself, Ó Dónnaill's Foclóir Geailge-Béarla lists nine different meanings for 'bain', from "1. Extract from bed in the ground, dig out" to "8. Win." and "9. Become due." Combining the verb with a preposition creates even more varied meanings for the verb. For example, Ó Dónnaill gives additional meanings for 'bain' when combined with the set of prepositions below:

  • bain amach, 1. Take out ... 7. Spend ...
  • bain anuas, Take down ...
  • bain ar, 1. Induce, ... 2. Lit: (a) Deprive of ...
  • bain as, 1. Take, remove, from, ... 6. Gut ... draw ... castrate...
  • bain chuig, chun, Start
  • bain de, 1. Take off, remove ... 5. Deprive
  • bain do, 1. Touch, interfere with ... 2. Concern, relate to ... 3. happen to ...
  • bain faoi, 1. Settle; stay, ... 4. Lit: Undertake
  • bain le, 1. Touch, interfere with ... 2. Concern, relate to ...
  • bain ó,1. Take from ... 2. Pacify control ...
  • bain siar as, 1. ~ siar as an airgead, use the money sparingly ...

This seanfhocal plays with two equivocal meanings of 'bain do,' namely 'interfere with' and 'concern'. The prepositions here are fused into prepositional pronouns, ach sin scéal eile.

Déan an fál nó iocfaidh tú foghail.

Make the fence or you will pay the plundering.

Note: Robert Frost quoted an old English proverb similar to this week's seanfhocal:

...
He is all pine and I am apple orchard.
My apple trees will never get across
And eat the cones under his pines, I tell him.
He only says, 'Good fences make good neighbors'.

Frost lived in New Hampshire where the fences are like those of Ireland, made over a long period of time from rocks without mortar. The rocks were extracted from a stony soil by persistent farmers. Frost goes on to wonder:

...
'Why do they make good neighbors? Isn't it
Where there are cows?
But here there are no cows.

But there are cows in Ireland. Is it fences that will prevent plunder? Read The Táin and discover that no fence can protect a cow from the Celt. There is another meaning of "foghail", trespass. Considering the current politics of Northern Ireland, Frost was correct when he concluded that:

Before I built a wall I'd ask to know
What I was walling in or walling out,
And to whom I was like to give offence.
Something there is that doesn't love a wall,
That wants it down...

"Mending Fences," from North of Boston, 1914.

Is minic a ghearr teanga duine a scornach.

It is often that a person's tongue cut his throat.

Note: This might be more colorfully be said as: "It is often that a man's tongue slit his own throat". Note also that although the seanfhocal speaks of a "person" (duine), it goes on to refer to "his throat". Much as in English (in the days before political correctness), when it is necessary to ascribe gender to a person or people, the masculine gender is used. This can be viewed as either giving the subject "the benefit of the doubt", or as a subtle statement that males come closest to the non-descript (neuter) gender.

Is minic a bhris beál duine a shrón.

It is often that a person's mouth broke his nose.

Note: This is a play on the multiple meanings of words. In this case the mouth does not physically break the nose in question. Rather, the mouth sets a chain of events in motion by speaking offensive words (by being "mouthy") which results in injury to its neighbor, the nose.

Cleachtadh a dhéanann maistreacht.

Practice makes mastery.

Note: Most people are familiar with the Modern English proverb, "Practice makes perfect." It connotes the trials and tribulations of repeated efforts to learn a new task well. It conjures up the image of the beginning musician struggling to learn the cords of her instrument. Perhaps, it evokes the scene of a budding Gaeilgeoir listening to a tape of spoken set phrases and repeating them over and over again.

But there is another subtle semantic variation of this week's proverb that is better captured in the Old English version of this proverb, "Use maketh mastery." Here the English word 'practice' like the Irish word 'cleachtadh' has another meaning. It also means experience. In this sense, mastery comes from doing. The maestro masters his instrument by performance, not just through the repetition of practice exercises. The Gaeilgeoir becomes fluent not from just doing her lessons regularly but by using the language.

In this spirit, we at Daltaí na Gaeilge invite you to do Irish. Join us at an immersion weekend. Use the language you are practicing and you will gain mastery.

Ní chruinníonn cloch reatha caonach.

A rolling stone gathers no moss.

Note: This week's proverb appears in almost every European language. The first known writing of it is attributed to Puplilius Syrus, a first century Latin writer, "Saxum volutum non obducitur musco." There is a Spanish version of it, "Piedra movediza nunca moho la cobija."

Italian -- "Pietra mossa non fa musco." French -- "Pierre qui rolle n' amasse point de mousse." German -- "Wälzender Stein wird nicht mossig." Dutch -- "Een rollende steen neemt geen mos mede." Danish -- "Den Steen der ofte flyttes, bliver ikke mossegroet. Scots Gaelic -- "Cha chinn còinneach air clach an udalain." Welch -- "Y maen a dreigla ni fysygla."

The idea is that if you keep yourself busy, if you keep moving, you will be free of the hindrances and distractions that afflict the sedentary. Like the rolling stone, you will not be swallowed up in useless moss. In the parlance of the Television Age, you will not become a couch potato.

Note also: You are not likely to find the word 'reatha' in an Irish dictionary, at least not directly. It is not a headword. The head word in this case is 'rith' which means 'run.' The verbal noun is also 'rith.' However, this verbal noun is modifying the noun 'cloch,' so it needs to be in the Genitive Case, which is 'reatha.'

An t-ualach is mó ar an gcapall is míne.

The heaviest load [is] on the gentlest horse.

Note: This proverb, like many, is equivocal. It could be interpreted in two different ways. On the one hand, it could be used as a indicator of a good worker. She doesn't complain. She gets the job done. Is fearr obair ná caint.

On the other hand, this could also mean that unless one speaks up one is likely to be exploited. Like the horse in George Orwell's "Animal Farm", he can passively accept more and more work until his health fails him. He needs to know when to say no. He can not do everything. Ní féidir leis an ngobadán an dá thrá a fhreastal.

Ní dhéanfaidh smaoineamh an treabhadh duit.

You'll never plough a field turning it over in your mind.

Note: This proverb is akin to the American one, "Wishes won't wash dishes." Some people may be daunted by a particular task. While it is wise to plan ahead, to think of the best way to accomplish a task, it can be foolish to dwell upon it. Pondering an unpleasant task only makes it worse. If one has to eat a toad, it is best not to stare at it for too long. Thanks and a Daltaí tip of the hat to Gus O Gormain for contributing this proverb.

Cuid Pháidín don mheacain an t-eireaballín caol.

The slender little end is the smallest part of anything.

Note: First things first. This proverb is also an Irish version of the 80-20 rule. The 80-20 rule is based on the Pareto Distribution. Wilfredo Pareto discovered in the later part of the nineteenth century that about 80% of the wealth of a country is usually controlled by about 20% to 40% of the population. This skewed distribution of wealth has been generalized into other areas, e.g., 60% to 80% of revenues are generated by 20% to 40% of one's customers, 60% to 80% of any job is completed with the first 20 to 40% of effort. So don't start with the end of a job, with the tail of any job; jump into the meat of it first.

Note also: This weeks' proverb contains an idiomatic homage to St. Patrick, the patron saint of Ireland and the first bishop of Armagh. The phrase "cuid Pháidín don mheacain" is translated as "the smallest part (or share) of anything." It literally means "Patrick's share of the root." Páid is an abbreviated form of Patrick. Páidín is the diminutive form. So the allusion is to a young St. Patrick.

Young St. Patrick was a slave of an Antrim chieftain named Miliucc, who ruled an area around Slemish Mountain. Tending the flocks, far from his home in Celtic Britannia, he prayed and fasted for redemption. In Patrick's Confession, he wrote of a dream in which a voice told him "Thou fastest well, soon thy will go to thy Fatherland." He fled to Wexford where he convinced a sea captain to allow him to escape to the continent. In northern Gaul, young Patrick and his party wandered in a dessert on the verge of starvation. All were amazed that Patrick always eat less than his comrades. On the verge of starvation, Patrick convinced his party to pray for redemption. Shortly afterward, they chanced upon a wild herd of pigs.

Patrick brought this fasting devotion back to Ireland to his ministry of the Gaels. Each Lent, he would fast in solitude at "the places where no man dwells." In 441 B.C., for example, he climbed a steep mountain on the shores of Clew Bay in what is now County Mayo. There he abstained from meat and fasted, living on meager roots, for forty days and nights. Since then the mountain has been called Croagh Phádraig. Pilgrims climb this mountain every March 17 in his memory, some barefoot, others on their knees. His memory is further honored in the Irish idiom that equates "Patrick's share of the root" with the "smallest part of anything."

Ní féidir leis an ngobadán an dá thrá a fhreastal.

The sandpiper can not attend to the two beaches (ebb-tides).

Note: One cannot be at two places at once. This is the usual English translation for this week's proverb. It has become an idiomatic expression in the Irish language. For example, suppose one wanted to say in Irish, "He is trying to do two things at once." Then one could say, "Tá sé ag iarraidh an dá thrá a fhreastal." (Literally: He is trying to attend to the two beaches.) Another form of the proverb uses an older present tense form of the verb 'tar,' namely 'tig.' "Ní thig leis an ngobadán an dá thrá a fhreastal."

In addition to spatial limitations, there is also a sense of temporal limitations in this week's proverb. This other interpretation hinges on another meaning of the word 'trá.' 'Trá' is also the verbal noun form for the verb 'tráigh,' which means ebb or abate. Consequently, the verbal noun 'an trá' means 'the ebb' or 'the ebb-tide.' Therefore, you can also translate this week's proverb as, "The sandpiper can not attend to the two ebb-tides." In other words, one can not work day and night.

Birds, especially marine birds like the sandpiper, had a mystical, almost divine place, in most ancient European cultures. They lived in the four Greek elements of nature; earth, air, fire, and water. They could walk on the earth. They could fly through the air. They could swim in the water. Some believed they flew into the sun at dusk and out of it at dawn. Ancient Celts shared this Greek world view. Druids believed nature's elements could be reduced to fire and water. Birds, like the Phoenix, could live in either. In any case, one could thus 'divine' truth from the observation of these ornithological 'divinities.'

Gheibheann cos ar siúl rud éigin.

A moving leg gets something.

Note: You will never get anything accomplished (like mastering 'an Ghaeilge') by just sitting around thinking about it. Active people reap the benefits of their exertions.

Note also: The Irish language has terms for parts and areas of the body which go nameless in other languages. That being said, it is curious that the word "cos" can refer to either the leg or the foot; and it is often used without really differentiating which portion of the appendage is in question.

Gheibheann pingin pingin eile.

A penny gets another penny.

Note: A person with a positive attitude might say that "A penny saved is a penny earned" while a cynic might say that "Money comes to money". This seanfhocal, in any event, encourages saving, whether it be in a mattress, piggy bank or with your friendly nieghborhood banker.

Note also: It is uncertain whether this seanfhocal will be "devalued" when Ireland switches her currency to the Euro.

Imíonn an tuirse ach fanann an tairbhe.

The tiredness leaves but the profit remains.

Note: This seanfhocal serves to encourage hard work. The Irish as a people much prefer working with family and friends as opposed to solitary labor. A group of people which comes together to help a neighbor or to accomplish some community project is known as a "meitheal". It would put one in mind of the "barn raisings" which were common in American pioneer days.

Ní neart go cur le chéile.

There is no strength without unity.

Note: In Béarla the saying is that "A chain is only as strong as its weakest link". Since at least the time of Strongbow (and probably longer) disunity has left Ireland open to her enemies. This seanfhocal expresses the still unfulfilled dream of Irish unity, be it political or cultural.

Molann an obair an fear.

The work praises the man.

Note: An English language saying with a similar theme might be "Anything worth doing is worth doing well". Especially in rural areas, the people are very conscious of who accomplished particular pieces of work. It is common in Connemara, for instance, for people to refer to whose father, great-grandfather, etc., constructed this or that stone wall.

Luigh leis an uan, agus éirigh leis an éan.

Lie with the lamb, and rise with the bird.

Note: This is reminiscent of the English language proverb "Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise". One obvious difference, however, is that the seanfhocal only gives advice on when to sleep, but does not go on to say what the benefits will be (such as health, wealth and wisdom). Perhaps this is indicative of a lack of conviction about the true value of the advice. The Irish reputation for enjoying the benefits of late night revelry certainly runs contrary to the dour advice offered in this seanfhocal.

Ní bhíonn an rath, ach mara mbíonn an smacht.

There is no prosperity unless there is discipline.

Note: Irish makes frequent use of the definite article "the" before nouns which do not refer to physical/tangible objects. Here, for instance, the seanfhocal refers to "an rath" (literally "the prosperity") and "an smacht" (literally "the discipline/control"). Likewise, even when speaking English, it is often said that someone has "the Irish" (meaning the Irish language), which mirrors the Irish reference to "an Ghaeilge".

Buail an iarann te.

Strike the hot iron.

Note: The English language equivalent, obviously, is "Strike while the iron is hot." It is interesting to note that the Irish word word "te" translates as both "warm" and "hot". It is not as though the Irish lack the capacity to be descriptive. The language has, for instance, many words for the various shades of green (much like the Eskimos who have many words to describe the various kinds of snow). Apparently there is not much call for words describing variations in warmth in a country where an 80° F (27° C) day represents an unbearable heat wave.

Is fearr obair ná caint.

Work is better than talk.

Note: A familiar English language equivalent might be: "Put your money where your mouth is". Note also that although the Irish word "Is" looks exactly like the English word "Is", the pronunciation is not the same. The Irish sound rhymes with "hiss", as when you let the air out of a tire.

Bíonn gach tosach lag.

Every beginning is weak.

Note: A familiar English language equivalent might be: "You have to learn to crawl before you learn to walk."

Is annamh earrach gan fuacht.

Seldom is Spring without cold.

Note: You have to take the bad with the good. Even the Spring has cold. You can not have one without the other. You can not have good without bad. You can not have cold without hot. This is a Celtic duality alluded to an in a Scots variant of this week's proverb, "Cha tig fuachd gu 'n tig Earrach." Cold comes not until Sring. The Celtic year begins in winter when it is cold. But in a sense, you can not know it is cold because you do not have warm to compare it with. In the Spring, however, you have both, warm and cold, and each acts as a point of reference for the other. Each allows you to know the other.

Ní hé lá na báistí lá na bpáistí.

The day of rain is not the day of children.

Note: The wisdom of this proverb is self-evident to many. This is true of any caregiver, any parent, any babysitter, who has been imprisoned with children due to inclement weather. These people have discovered that the walls of any enclosure are not capable of releasing the vast stores of energy pent-up in every child.

Note also: This proverb is also a word-play on the genitive case. Irish is an inflected language. This means that the role a noun plays in a sentence is determined by a case ending. For example, if a noun is the subject of the sentence, it would require a nominative case ending. If it were the object of the sentence, it would require the accusative case ending. Consider the following sentence. "The car hit the wall." A car is doing the action so it is the subject of the sentence. The sentence is about the car. On the other hand, the wall was the object of the action of the car. Therefore, it is the object of the sentence.

English lost all its case endings, except one for the genitive case. Let us modify our earlier example. "John's car hit the wall." The noun "John" is said to be in the genitive case, where the "'s" acts as a genitive case ending. Nouns in the genitive case imply the preposition "of." We could make this explicit on our example. "The car of John's hit the wall." Both examples mean exactly the same thing.

The genitive case is the most important case in Irish. It is used to group nouns into classes called declensions. The declensions all have the same or similar genitive case endings. In our proverb, we have two uses of the genitive case. The first is genitive singular, "lá na báistí" -- the day of rain. Báistí is the genitive singular of báisteach. The second is genitive plural, " lá na bpáistí" -- day of the children. "Na bpáistí" is the genitive plural of "an páiste." The definite article before a genitive plural noun triggers eclipses. Therefore, in this case, the two genitive phrases are pronounced exactly the same.a

Is iomaí athrú a chuireann lá Márta dhe.

There is a lot of weather in a March day.

Note: One meaning of this week's proverb is the obvious one about the variations of weather in March. "March comes in like a lion and goes out like a lamb."

Charming and fascinating he resolved to be. Like March, having come in like a lion, he purposed to go out like a lamb.
          Charlotte Brontë, Shirley, 1849
New England has this variety of weather all year long.
There is a sumptious variety about the New England weather that compels the strangers admiration -- and regret. The weather is always doing something there; always attending strictly to business; always getting up new designs and trying them on people to see how they will go. ... Yes, one of the brightest gems in the New England weather is the dazzling uncertainty of it.
          Mark Twain, Speech, The Weather, 1876
It has been said that if you don't like New England weather, just wait a minute.

There is another more sublte meaning in this week's proverb. It is a metaphor for the fickleness of youth. This is hinted at in the use of the word 'athrú' which actually means change. The seanfhocal literally means, "'Tis many a change that a day gets done [in] March." The word 'cuir' used with the preposition 'd(h)e' means, among other things, 'accomplish' or 'get done.' The word 'March' is the actual metaphor for youth.

This metaphor is, perhaps, more apparent in a variation of this proverb that comes from the north of Ireland. "Is iomaÌ taghd a thagann i lá earraigh." ('Tis many a change that comes in a spring day.) It is implicit in the use of the word 'taghd' which usually means 'fit' or 'impulse.' "Tá taghd ann." (He is impulsive. Literally: There is impulse in him.) Spring may be a more familiar metaphor for youth than March.

Note also: The speaker pronounces the word 'iomaí' as umi: while we represent it above as imi:. The pronunciation umi: is more common in the south and west of Ireland, while imi: is more common in the north. However, the pronunciation imi: was proposed as the Lárchanúint (Core dialect) pronunciation that is used in Foclóir Póca. The "Pronunciation Guide" in Collins Pocket Irish Dictionary also uses the Lárchanúint pronunciation, saying that the spelling 'io' is pronunced as a short 'i,' e.g., 'fionn' where the short 'i' is pronounced like the 'i' in the English word 'shin.'

Olc síon an sioc, is fearr sioc ná sneachta agus is fearr sneachta ná síorbháisteach.

Frost is bad weather,[but] frost is better than snow, and snow is better than eternal rain.

Note: Your editor took a bus tour of Dublin once. During the tour, the bus driver was heard to comment on the local climate, a common Irish pastime: "Oh, the weather was grand this week last. It only rained twice. Once for three days and once for four days."

From the lament in this week's proverb, you would think that Ireland gets a lot of rain. As you will see in the table below, Dublin has an average annual rainfall of 29.7 inches. But, the average annual rainfall for New York City, over the same points in time, is significantly greater at 47.5 inches.

 

IRISH CLIMATE - ANNUAL RAINFALL
Station1962
(mm)
(inches)
1980
(mm)
(inches)
1990
(mm)
(inches)
1997
(mm)
(inches)
1998
(mm)
(inches)
Cork Airport1,042.4
41.0
1,303.8
51.3
1,032.7
40.7
1,269.2
50.0
1,378.4
54.3
Dublin Airport654.2
25.8
825.1
32.5
728.4
28.7
725.9
28.6
832.4
32.8
Kerry1,232.3
48.5
1,775.5
69.9
1,334.8
52.6
1,393.7
54.9
1,782.3
70.2
Kilkenny790.5
31.1
898.1
35.4
842.1
33.2
932.6
36.7
977.8
38.5
Malin Head991.3
39.0
1,084.3
42.4
1,310.8
51.6
999.7
39.4
1,285.2
50.6
Mullingar968.2
38.1
1,007.6
39.7
1,022.1
40.2
938.6
37.0
1,079.9
42.5
Shannon Airport921.2
36.3
1,043.1
41.1
1,023.9
40.3
1,026.9
40.4
1,144.5
45.1
Central Park,
New York
998.2
39.3
1,132.8
44.6
1,546.9
60.9
1,115.1
43.9
1,237.0
48.7
Sources: Irish Meteorological Service
U.S. National Weather Service

It rains with about the same frequency in New York and Dublin, about 11 days a month, on average. Yet, it is not common to hear complaints in New York about "eternal rain." The difference can be attributed to the fact that when the rain is over in New York, the sun comes out and tends to stay out. In Dublin, however, it seems to be eternally overcast, with the sun peeking out of the clouds for only a few hours each month. In New York, when it rains it usually pours. By contrast, Dublin rains tend to be more of a gentle mist. Dublin's perpetual cloudiness permits this mist to linger in the air indefinitely. This tends to give the impression of "eternal rain".

Is fearr clú ná conach.

A good name is better than riches.

Note: This week's proverb comes to us from the Old Testament's Book of Proverbs, "Tá dea-cháil le roghnú thar bhreis maoine, agus is fearr dea-mheas ort ná airgead nó ór." (A good name is to be chosen above riches, and a good reputation is better than silver or gold.) Proverbs 22:1 This aphorism appears again in the Book of Ecclesiastes, "Is fearr dea-ainm ná dea-ola agus lá báis ná lá breithe." (A good name is better than good oinment, and the day of death than the day of birth.) Ecclesiastes 7:1 The word 'ointment' here refers to the oils applied to a child at birth. It is a metaphor that means a good name survives even death. There is a Japanese proverb along the same lines. "When a tiger dies it leaves its skin; when a man dies it leaves its name."

William Shakespeare probably composed the greatest ironic tale about a good name in the English language. The evil lieutenant Iago tells his general, Othello,

Good name in man, and woman, dear my lord,
Is the immediate jewel of our souls.
Who steals my purse steals trash. 'Tis something, nothing;
'Twas mine, 'tis his, and has been slave to thousands;
But he that filches from my good name
Robs me of that which not enriches him,
And makes me poor indeed.
The Tragedy of Othello, Act III, Scene III, Verses 178-184.

as he is plotting to besmirch the name of Desdemona, Othello's wife. Not much is known about Shakespeare's origins but his genius as a seanchaí (story teller) is indisputable. Consequently, some believe that he is an offspring of an ancient mystical Celtic clann, "Seach-an-spéir" (Beyond the sky).

Filleann an feall ar an bhfeallaire.

The treachery returns to the betrayer.

Note: In the United States the equivalent would be "What comes around goes around". This seanfhocal is best delivered with a curled lip and menace in the voice.

Níor bhris focal maith fiacail riamh.

A good word never broke a tooth.

Note: A kind word is always welcome. Another variation of this week's proverb says, "Ní mhillean dea-ghlór fiacail." (A sweet voice does not injure the teeth.) One's mother might tell you, "It won't kill you to be nice." A French speaker may say, "Douces paroles n'écorchent pas la langue." (Sweet words will not scrape the tongue.) "Good words are worth much, and cost little." George Herbert, Jacula Prudentum [1651] no. 155. However, Myles na Gopaleen has reserved his store of kind words for all kinds of Irish words, leaving few kind words to say about the few words in the English lexicon:

     A lady lecturing on the Irish language drew attention to the fact (I mentioned it myself as long ago as 1925) that while the average English speaker gets along with a mere 400 words, the Irish-speaking peasant uses 4,000. Considering what most English speakers can achieve with their tiny fund of noises, it is a nice speculation to what extremity one would be reduced if one were locked up for a day with an Irish-speaking bore and bereft of all means of committing murder or suicide.
     My point, however, is this. The 400/4,000 ratio is fallacious; 400/400,000 would be more like it.
... [For example]
     Your paltry English speaker apprehends sea-going craft through the infantile cognition which merely distinguishes the small from the big. If it's small, it's a boat, and if it's large, it's a ship. In his great book, An tOileánach, however, the uneducated Tomás Ó Criomhthain uses perhaps a dozen words to convey the concept of varying super-marinity -- áthrach long, soitheach, bád, namohóg, bád raice, galbhád, púcán and whatever your having yourself.
     The plight of the English speaker with his wretched box of 400 vocal beads may be imagined when I say that a really good Irish speaker would blurt out the whole 400 in one cosmic grunt. In Donegal there are native speakers who know so many million words that it is a matter of pride with them never to use the same word twice in a life-time. Their life (not to say their language) becomes very complex at the century mark; but there you are.
The Best of Myles, Flann O'Brien, Dalkey Archive Press, 1999, pp. 278-279.

Myles na gCopaleen is the Irish-language pseudonym of Brian Ó Nuallain. Flann O'Brien is the English-language pseudonym of Brian Ó Nuallain. Ó Nuallain was born in Strabane, County Tyrone, in 1911 and he died in Dublin in 1966. He wrote a column called "Cruishkeen Lawn" in the Irish Times, first in Irish, and later in English. The excerpt above is reprinted from one of those columns. Ó Nuallain wrote a classic satire in Irish, An Béal Bocht (The Poor Mouth), in 1941. He wrote several plays and novels in English, most notably, At Swim-Two-Birds in 1939.

Na trí cairde is fearr agus na trí naimhde is measa: tine, gaoth, is uisce.

The three best friends and the three worst enemies:
fire, wind, and water.

Note: This triad reveals the fundamental duality of nature. For the Gael, like the Greek, the four elements of nature were earth, air, fire, and water. We can only speculate why earth was chosen not to appear in this triad. Perhaps, it is neutral, a home for the people above the ground and the gods below the ground.

But, everything else in the universe can be either good or bad for you. Fire can keep you from freezing to death. It can also kill you. The wind is a manifestation of the air. Air is necessary for life. A gale wind, on the other hand, can kill you. Nothing can live without water. On the other hand, you can drown in water.

Note also: There is an exception to a counting rule in Irish grammar in this week's parable. When counting things, one should use the singular number for the noun, e.g., trí chara, trí namhaid. However, one exception is when using the plural definite article 'na.' Then one uses the plural form of the noun, e.g., na trí chairde, na trí naimhde.

An rud a ghoilleas ar an gcroí caithfidh an t-súil é a shileas.

What pains the heart must be washed away with tears.

Note: It is interesting to contrast this Celtic sentiment with the Saxon stiff upper lip. It is very British to respond to grief by taking control over it, by suppressing the emotion. Real men do not cry. It is an Imperial attitude. Even the language reflects this emotional Imperialism. In English, one says, "I am sorry," as if you were telling someone your name, as if it were part of your identity. Since I am rational being, "sorry" is my rational response to the situation.

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Condolence Messages

Loosing a loved one is one of the hardest things we can go through. If you are attending a burial or cremation ceremony, it is customary to send or bring along funeral or sympathy flowers along with a card with few words expressing your sympathy.

When you’re struggling with words for a condolence card or sympathy card, these will help:

  1. Even the person may go away, you always have their memories with you. It is something that nobody can take away from you.
  2. I’m sending you lots of love and my heartfelt sympathies on the sad demise of your beloved little one.
  3. The times are tough today and the pain is unbearable. But I am always there for you. I can understand your dissapointment, but I can only assure that these sorry days shall pass soon. Take your care.
  4. Our loved ones, never leave our side. Even if death does us apart, their souls still remain safe in our hearts. Your beloved wife was a wonderful person. Nobody can ever take her place. She will be missed by everyone. May her soul rest in peace.
  5. I was saddened to hear about the loss of your loving father. Please take care of yourself, dear. May his soul rest in tranquil.
  6. I am sorry for your loss. May the departed soul rest in eternal peace. Stay strong and let time heal you. God is always with you
  7. Difficult times, like this, can be very painful. But I pray to god to give you strength, and power to overcome this sorry time. I am always by your side, and may you see happiness soon.
  8. You are in my thoughts.
  9. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
  10. We are thinking of you.
  11. We are thinking of you during this difficult time.
  12. With deepest sympathy,
  13. My sincere sympathy,
  14. Our warmest condolences,
  15. With heartfelt condolences,
  16. Please accept my condolences,
  17. We are deeply sorry to hear about the death of “name of deceased”.
  18. Remember that we love and care about you.
  19. As you grieve know that we are remembering you and honoring the memory of “name of the deceased”.
  20. With caring thoughts,
  21. With loving memories of “name of deceased”,
  22. Sent with love and remembrance,
  23. Our hearts go out to you in your time of sorrow.
  24. “Name of Deceased” will remain in our hearts forever.
  25. We pray the love of God enfolds you during your journey through grief.
  26. We send you thoughts of comfort.
  27. Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
  28. With love and hugs,
  29. We will miss “name of deceased”.
  30. We share comfort in knowing “name of deceased” is no longer suffering.  We send thoughts of sympathy and support to you as you begin your journey without “name of deceased”.
  31. Remembering you and “name of deceased” in our minds and in our hearts.
  32. With thoughts of peace and courage for you,
  33. We send you thoughts of peace and courage.
  34. Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel about  “name of deceased” death.  We are here to support you in your grieving process.  With sincere sympathy,
  35. “Name of deceased” brought so many gifts to our life. We will never forget him/her!
  36. May your heart and soul find peace and comfort.
  37. Peace, Prayers , and Blessings,
  38. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, the courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
  39. May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you.
  40. When reason fails, pray for peace. We will be praying with you.

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Choosing the Perfect Words of Condolences

Condolence Definition

noun: con·do·lence pronounced [kənˆdou ləns]
plural: con·do·lences pronounced [kənˆdou ləns iz]

Definition:
1. Something you say or write to express sympathy when someone has died.
2. An expression of sympathy with someone who is grieving.

Examples:
1. He carefully wrote his words of condolences in a card for his good friend.
2. Please accept my sincere condolences at the loss of your loved one.

Words of condolences are comforting words shared with a person who has suffered the loss of a dear one. Choosing the right words to say at such a time can be quite challenging, but you can do so quickly by selecting from the following phrases. Salutations to Accompany Your Words of Condolences

The examples below demonstrate how to begin a condolence letter with an appropriate salutation or greeting.

  • Dearest _______,
  • My Dear Friend _______,
  • Dear _______,
  • Dear Mrs. _______,
  • Dear Mr. _______,
  • Dear Dr. and Mrs. _______,
  • Dear Rev. _______,
  • Dear Pastor _______,
  • Dear _______ and Family,
  • Dear Family _______,

First Words to Express Your Sympathies

Some words of comfort you can use to open your letter and express your sorrow are:

  • Our deepest condolences to you upon the passing of _______.
  • So sorry to hear of _______'s passing.
  • Please accept our heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your loved one.
  • Words can't express how saddened we are to hear of your loss.
  • Our sincere sympathies to you and your family.
  • We pray the love of God enfolds you during this difficult time
  • May your many memories of _______ help to sustain you at this most difficult time.
  • You are in our prayers during this difficult time in the loss of your dear _______
  • It was with great sadness that we learned of _______'s passing; please accept our heartfelt condolences.

Words of Condolences to Use in the Body of Your Letter

At this point in your letter you can also say some kind words about the deceased. The following sympathy phrases are popular and appropriate:

  • Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. I will always remember _____ fondly and have wonderful memories of many times spent with you all during the younger years! He leaves behind a wonderful family and I know you will all be a great source of comfort and support to one another.
  • We were so sorry to hear about _____'s passing. We hope that the love of family and friends will comfort and strengthen you in the days ahead.
  • So sorry to hear this sad news. We will miss _____ at the lake this summer. Thinking of you and your family at this time.
  • My condolences to you and your family on the passing of your _____. It is never easy to lose a parent, no matter your age. I pray for your peace and comfort as you continue your life journey without your _____'s earthly presence.
  • Sympathies to your family on the passing of your brother/sister. He/she will always be in our hearts.
  • Words are never adequate in moments like these. We will say though, that our hearts go out to you, and we will always remember the joyous memories that we are privileged to have in knowing your _____.
  • May God's peace be with you. Cherish the memories you created with _____. I will always remember him/her for her caring and loving nature.
  • Our condolences to you at this sad time. Your _____ was a wonderful man/woman. He/She always had a beautiful smile. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Famous Condolence Quotes You Can Use as Words of Condolences

  • “Tearless grief bleeds inwardly.” Christian Bovee.
  • “Grief and sadness knits two hearts in closer bonds than happiness ever can and common sufferings are far stronger than common joys.” Alphonse de Lamartine
  • “Heaven knows we need never be ashamed of our tears, for they are rain upon the blinding dust of earth, overlying our hard hearts.” Charles Dickens
  • “Time heals grief and quarrels, for we change and are no longer the same person.” Blaise Pascal
  • “Those who learned to know death, rather than to fear and fight it, become our teachers about life” Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
  • “When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.” Kahlil Gibran
  • “When you speak of him/her speak not with tears for thoughts of him/her should not be sad. Let memories of the times you shared give you comfort for his/her life was rich because of you.” Author Unknown
  • “Your dexterous wit will haunt us long, wounding our grief with yesterday, your laughter is a broken song; and death has found you, kind and gay. We may forget those transient things, that made your charm and our delight, but loyal love has deathless wings, that rise and triumph out of the night. So, in the days to come, your name shall be as music that ascends, when honor turns a heart from shame…O heart of hearts! O friends of friends!” Siegfried Sassoon
  • “There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go.” Author Unknown

The Following Bible Verses Make Excellent Sympathy Sayings for Cards

Bible verses can make excellent words of condolences. Use one of the following:

  • “Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” Isaiah 40:18-31
  • “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” Psalm 73:26
  • “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18
  • "For he has not despised or disdained the suffering of the afflicted one; he has not hidden his face from him but has listened to his cry for help." Psalm 22:24
  • "Brothers, we do not want you to be ignorant about those who fall asleep, or to grieve like the rest of men, who have no hope." 1 Thessalonians 4:13
  • "Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort; Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God." 2 Corinthians 1:3,4
  • "Behold, I tell you a mystery: We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed - in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed. For this corruptible must put on incorruption, and this mortal must put on immortality. So when this corruptible has put on incorruption, and this mortal has put on immortality, then shall be brought to pass the saying that is written: "Death is swallowed up in victory.” Corinthians 15:52-56
  • "For men are not cast off by the Lord forever. Though he brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is his unfailing love. For he does not willingly bring affliction or grief to the children of men." Lamentations 3:31-33
  • "I will ransom them from the power of the grave; I will redeem them from death. Where, O death, are your plagues? Where, O grave is your destruction?" Hosea 13:14
  • "He will swallow up death forever. The sovereign Lord will wipe away the tears from all faces; he will remove the disgrace of his people from all the earth. The Lord has spoken." Isaiah 25:8

Social Media Condolence Messages

Using Social Media platforms such as Twitter and Facebook is very acceptable in today’s society. Some short phrases you can use for texts, instant messaging, emails, and tweets, are:

  • There are no words to express my sorrow for your loss.
  • You are in my thoughts and prayers.
  • Don’t forget how much we love and care about you.
  • Please know that I am thinking of you and the rest of your family at this time
  • My heart is heavy as I think of your Mom/Dad and the blessing she/he was to me.
  • May the love of your family comfort you in the days ahead.
  • Praying that the Lord will give you strength during this difficult time.
  • Please accept my deepest sympathies for your loss; my prayers are with you and your children during this difficult time.
  • My sincere condolences. May you find comfort and the strength to cope
  • Our condolences to you at this sad time.

Use the KISS principle

Keep It Sensitive and Simple- when writing words of condolences, and do say the following:

  • Say that you're sorry for their loss
  • Share a funny memory of the deceased
  • Mention their unique qualities
  • Say that you'll miss them also

Common Misspellings for Condolence Based Words

Makes sure you avoid these common spelling mistakes if substituting your own words for any in our samples.

  • Condolense
  • Condolesense
  • Bereeved
  • Berieved
  • Greeving
  • Greiving
  • Deceesd
  • Deceesed
  • Simpothie

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