Simple wedding wishes to write in a card

We've been there: You shop long and hard to find the perfect wedding card for the soon-to-be married couple and then you get home and have a pretty rough time figuring out what to write in it. The good news is, there are no hard-and-fast rules about what to write in a wedding card. As long as your wedding congratulations message is heartfelt and offers the couple a positive wish for their marriage, you're good to go.

Wedding Card Etiquette 101

It should almost go without saying that wedding cards are customary for anyone who wants to send wedding wishes to an engaged or newly married couple. If you're following traditional wedding guest etiquette, you'll either want to bring the card to the wedding reception or mail it directly to the couple (usually between the time you receive the wedding invitation and a few weeks after the wedding). Honestly though, you can send it whenever you want. You could even send a nice card if the wedding is small and you're not invited. Simply put: Wedding congratulations are welcome anytime by anyone!

As for the card itself, wedding cards come in lots of different formats—from standard greeting cards you find at a cute stationery shop to homemade cards, small tags attached to gifts and even simple, digitally created wedding messages that are printed and shipped to the couple with their gift. All of the above pass as a wedding card and are considered okay, so don't feel the need to have more than one. (Then again, if you bought a gift off the couple's registry and want them to also have a pretty card from you, take one to the reception and drop it in a wedding card box or on a gift table!)

Is It Okay to Write the Term "Congratulations?"

In short, yes. That said, it used to be saying or writing "congratulations" to a newly married woman was once considered a faux pas because it was thought of as congratulating her on actually landing a man! (Yep, you read that right.) Today though, that's considered an outdated rule and school of thought. Still, if the couple happens to be very traditional or come from a very traditional family, you might want to avoid the term altogether and just say "best wishes."

What to Write in a Wedding Card

The perfect wedding wish is sentimental, sweet and totally tailored to the couple. Is it for your favorite cousin and his new wife? Or your hilarious college roommate who finally settled down? Below are dozens of examples of wedding wishes quotes for inspiration. Use the quick links below to craft an amazing (genius!) wedding message:

Formal Wedding Wishes

Just because it's a formal wedding with floor-length dresses and tuxes doesn't mean you have to send a formal card with stuffy wording. (The card doesn't have to perfectly match the event.) Still, if you want to write a nice message that's timeless and romantic, a formal note is the way to go.

Examples:

• "Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness."
• "Your wedding day will come and go, but may your love forever grow."
• "Best wishes on this wonderful journey, as you build your new lives together."
• "May the years ahead be filled with lasting joy."
• "May the love you share today grow stronger as you grow old together."
• "May your joining together bring you more joy than you can imagine."
• "May today be the beginning of a long, happy life together."
• "Thank you for letting us/me share in this joyful day. We/I wish you all the best as you embark on this wonderful union."
• "Wishing you joy, love and happiness on your wedding day and as you begin your new life together."
• "May the love and happiness you feel today shine through the years."

Casual Wedding Wishes

If you don't feel comfortable with formal wedding sayings, then don't do it. Be yourself. It's completely fine to write a more casual wedding message in the card, no matter the recipient. Put it this way: Short and sweet is always fine, as long as you're saying something nice or including a wish for the couple's future.

Examples:

• "Best wishes!"
• "Congratulations!"
• "Congratulations on your wedding!"
• "We're/I'm so happy for you!"
• "Wishing you lots of love and happiness."
• "We/I love you. Congrats!"
• "Lots of love today and beyond."
• "Here's a little something to start your life together." (If you're including a gift.)
• "Hugs and kisses."
• "Wishing you a long and happy marriage."
• "Here's to a long and happy marriage!"
• "Wishing you the best today and always."
• "So happy to celebrate this day with you both!"
• "Best wishes for a fun-filled future together."

Funny Wedding Wishes

Go ahead and write something funny in the card that you think will make them laugh. Just be careful with your marriage wishes. What might easily come across as a joke in conversation could be taken the wrong way on paper. As a rule of thumb, avoid jokes that are sarcastic or snarky. Also off-limits? Steer clear of anything that could be considered insulting, imply that one of them is the "better half" or mention anything about it having taken way too long (or way too little time) to get married. Oh, and no divorce jokes!

Examples:

• "As Bill and Ted said, 'Be excellent to each other.'"
• "Thanks for inviting us to eat and drink while you get married. Congrats!"
• "Wishing you lots of love—and lots of makeup sex!" (If this is appropriate given your relationship with the couple.)
• "Our marriage advice: Love, honor and… scrub the toilet." (Or fill in any other funny advice you have.)
• "Love is all you need… stick with that crap and you'll do great!" (If this is appropriate given your relationship with the couple.)
• "Treat marriage like a hockey game. No roughing!"
• "Thanks for the free booze. Best wishes on a long, happy marriage!"
• "Getting married is like going to drama school. May there be more comedy than melodrama."

Religious Wedding Wishes

If the couple is religious, then this might be the best option. Religious wedding card messages can mention God, tell them of your prayers or quote scripture. Before writing a religious message in a wedding card, consider the couple's beliefs and practices, and customize the message to them. If they aren't too religious or don't worship regularly, something very religious could make them uncomfortable, so it's be best to tone down religious elements or avoid them altogether. And if you're unsure of what religious message to write, opt for more general wedding words instead.

Christian Examples:

• "May God bless you and your union."
• "May God grant you all of life's blessings and love's joys."
• "Sending you prayers for unending love and happiness."
• "God bless you both on this day with a lifetime of shared love and joy."
• "May the One who brought you together bless your marriage, enrich your lives and deepen your love throughout the years."
• " 'God has poured out His love into our hearts.' – Romans 5:5"
• " 'Love is patient. Love is kind… Love never fails.' – 1 Corinthians 13:4-13"

Jewish Examples:

• "Mazel Tov! May the joy that is yours today always fill your life."
• " 'I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine.' – Shir Ha'Shirim/Song of Songs 6:3" Or " 'Ani L'Dodi, v'Dodi Li.' – Shir Ha'Shirim/Song of Songs 6:3"
• "May you be blessed."
• "Mazel Tov on your wedding!" or "Mazel Tov on your marriage!"

Wedding Wishes for a Family Member

When writing a wedding card for family, you can go very general or very personal—it's completely up to you and the type of message you want to convey.

Examples:

• "Congratulations on your marriage, and welcome to the family!"
• "We are/I am so happy to welcome a new family member. Best wishes to you both!"
• "We're/I'm so happy [name] has found 'the one.' Welcome to the family!"
• "We're delighted to share this day with you both."
• "What a wonderful day for our family, and especially you two. May the joy you feel today last a lifetime."
• "Today, we add one more member to our family, and we couldn't be happier. Best wishes to you both."
• "What a wonderful addition to our family. We're/I'm so happy to share in your celebration. Congratulations!"
• "We/I couldn't be happier to call you both family. Best wishes for a long and happy future together."
• "We/I love you both. Thanks for letting us share in your celebration!"
• "Congrats! Love and hugs."

Wedding Wishes for Your Sister or Brother and Sister-in-Law or Brother-in-Law

So you're writing a message on your brother's or sister's wedding card? The key here is personality. In some cases, sibling relationships are strained, in which case you might want to go general. But more often, your brother or sister is the person whom you know best, to whom you can make inside jokes or recall some of your favorite moments together. Just remember to mention the new spouse in your note!

Examples:

• "It seems like yesterday we were playing 'house' in the backyard, and now you get to do it in real life. I couldn't be happier for you both. Congratulations!"
• "I always wanted a brother/sister and now I get one. Congratulations to you both on finding one another."
• "Best wishes to my best friend and sister/brother and new sister/brother as you start your life together."
• "We/I love you both. Today I gain a new sibling and I couldn't be happier!"
• "Lots of love and happiness to you both on this exciting and joyful day for our family."
• "Remember when you made that list of qualities of a 'perfect man/woman?' Well, you found him/her. Lots of love now and always."
• "Lots of love to the best sister/brother in the whole world and her/his new partner for life. May you have a marriage full of love and happiness!"
• "You bring my sister/brother so much joy. All my love!"
• "I'm so thankful to have a sister/brother like you. And I wish you and your new husband/wife lifelong joy."
• "My/our deepest love and very best wishes to you both."

Wedding Wishes for Your Son or Daughter and Son-in-Law or Daughter-in-Law

It's a big deal when your son or daughter marries. And when you're the mother or father of the bride or groom, you'll most likely feel a flurry of emotions that are extra tricky to get down on paper. What's most important is that you wish the couple well. From there, add in some personal touches to the otherwise standard wedding wishes quote to give your wedding card message meaning. If you're happily married, you could even add some of your own marriage advice.

Examples:

• "We are/I am so happy to welcome a new son/daughter to the family."
• "What a wonderful day for our family, and especially you two. May the joy you feel today last a lifetime."
• "Today, we add one more member to our family, and we couldn't be happier. Best wishes to you both."
• "Best wishes to my son/daughter and son-in-law/daughter-in-law as you start your life together."
• "We/I love you both. We/I couldn't be happier!"
• "Lots of love and happiness to you both on this exciting and joyful day for our family."
• "My/our deepest love and very best wishes to you both."
• "Son/daughter, I/we feel many emotions on this day. Most of all, I'm/we're happy you've found someone wonderful to share your life with. Best wishes to you both."
• "We/I know we're/I'm not losing a son/daughter. We're/I'm gaining a son/daughter. Much happiness to you."

What to Write on a Wedding Card to a Friend

It's just as good of a choice to go classic with wedding wording on a friend's wedding card as it is to get specific and personal. Before you write, consider your relationship and how funny, serious, personal or sentimental you want to get with your wedding wishes. Then go from there.

Examples:

• "I'm so happy to call you both my friends. Congratulations!"
• "That fortune-teller we saw in Vegas was right. You did meet the man/woman of your dreams. Best wishes to you both!"
• "Of all the big life events we've celebrated over the years, today tops the list. Congrats!"
• "Thank you for inviting me to share in this day with you and your family. Best wishes."
• "I'm/we're so thrilled to celebrate this wonderful day with you both."
• "Best wishes for a long and happy life together."
• "May you bring each other as much happiness as your friendship has brought to my life -- and more!"
• "We've had so many laughs together! May you always make each other laugh!"
• "Here's to love and friendship!"
• "Congratulations to a wonderful friend and his/her new husband/wife."

What to Say in a Wedding Card to a Coworker

When writing a card to your coworker who's getting married, you're probably not going to want to wish them "lots of love." Instead, it's best to go with general wording. Use one of the formal or casual examples above, or see below for a few appropriate, work-inspired quotes. All that said, it's more than possible that your coworker is a good friend. If that's the case, scroll up to "Wedding Card Wishes for a Friend."

Examples:

• "Thank you for inviting me to share in this day with you and your family. Best wishes."
• "I'm so glad to have gotten to know you at work, and I wish you and your new husband/wife a long and happy life together."
• "Best wishes to a very cool coworker and his/her new husband/wife."
• "Wishing you success—and most of all happiness—in your marriage."
• "You've got a new title: husband/wife! Wishing you and your spouse the best."
• "What a wonderful day to celebrate my coworker and his/her spouse. All the best to you both in your marriage."

Wedding Card Sayings for a Parent and Stepparent

Whether you're thrilled or lukewarm about the union, if your mom or dad is getting married (or remarried), it's completely normal to agonize a little over the right wedding card wording. Our best piece of advice? Be honest and tell the truth. Don't say you're crazy about the new husband or wife if you're not, but instead wish them both a happy future together. After all, isn't that what you want for your parent?

Examples:

• "Congratulations! [Name of stepparent], you make my mom/dad so happy. I look forward to getting to know you better."
• "Mom/Dad, I'm so happy you found a partner to share your life with. Congratulations."
• "I'm/we're thrilled you make each other so happy. Best wishes!"
• "Welcome to the family. We love you both!"
• "Mom/Dad, thank you for all the advice you've given me over the years. Now here's mine: [Fill in your own advice]."
• "I'm overjoyed to see you so happy. Lots of love."
• "Mom/Dad, we/I love you. [Name of stepparent], we/I warmly welcome you to the family. Congratulations."
• "I'll give you the advice you once gave me. [Fill in your parent's best love advice.]"
• "To the best mom/dad I could ever ask for, and his/her new husband/wife. Much happiness to you both."
• "So now we get to enjoy [stepparent's name]'s cooking on holidays? Yes!" (Or refer to something else you really like about the new stepparent.)

The most beautiful feeling is getting married to the person whom you love more than anyone in the world in front of God and Family. These are the moments of sentiments and happiness experience in life. Every decision in one’s life leads to a new journey. When two people marry each other, it means they willing choose an entirely new path to carry out rest of their lives. A wedding is basically a magical fair, there is love, romance, and beauty all around with songs sung by orchestra enhance the magnificence of the day. When the wedding day is near, you should be well prepared to make this occasion unforgettable. For the bride and groom who are about to get married, cheer their special day by preparing a greeting card with Happy Wedding Wishes and present your warmest congratulation about their happily married life. One most important thing to be kept in mind before writing a wedding congratulations message is that your wish should be short and simple. All the presents and gifts never stay, what remains is a sincere wish with sentimental and heartfelt words. Below you can find cute and unique ideas and quotes for wishing someone to their married life.

• “May the hope and dream of your marriage bloom like a beautiful sunflower.”
• “Best wishes for a long and happy life together.”
• “With you in spirit as you join hands and hearts and lives for always.”
• “May the years ahead be filled with lasting joy.”
• “Congrats on this lovely and beautiful occasion! May the GOD give you a wonderful life together!”

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Happy Wedding Wishes: What to Write in a Wedding Greeting Cards

A Heartfelt wish is always a perfect wedding gift. Sometimes we are short of words to congratulate the newlyweds and wishing them for happily married life. It is not easy to create a wedding card, most of the time we didn’t come up with the right words to express our feelings and gratitude to the recipient. Traditional wishes can work but for your closed ones you must write from the deepest part of your heart. When writing a wedding wish one thing to be kept in mind what you write must vary person to person. Because a general wish works fine but they are not meant to wish everyone as not all people have the same importance in one’s life. These generic wishes are fine when you want to wish a person which not have that much concern in your life. Same like that if you are wishing someone who has spiritual beliefs and too much inside religious rituals then for such a person wedding wish with religious quotes and scripture is the best option. Likewise, if the couple getting married is your close friend or brother/sister then your wish must be unique and stands upon of the presented wishes on the couple’s special day, you can also share a memory and funny incident experienced by both of you to your greeting card. For parents who want to wish their kids can add some inspirational words enriched with your love and sentiments to enlighten the celebrant’s day.  If you are lack of words, then here is a collection of short wedding quotes and messages which are perfect for a wedding greeting.

Wishing you a life full of happiness ahead.

Best wishes on this blessed day!

Congratulations on finding your perfect match.

May your endless love story continue to flourish.

Wishing you a sweet married life!

Warmest congratulations to both of you and love!

Congratulations to the perfect pair!

Wishing that your love lasts till your last breath!

Such great news to hear about your wedding – It could not happen to a nicer couple.

Wishing you never-ending love and the happiest life together!

On your wedding day, I wish you a long life Honeymoon!

Wishing that this hangover of love never fades away!

May you’ve got the happiest of marriages and the wedding of your dreams!

Wishing all the best for you two today and always!

Best Funny Wedding Wishes | Sarcastic Wedding Messages

The wedding day is the most beautiful time in everyone lives. On this day everyone is dressed in formal clothes like groom wear tuxedo and bride wear a formal wedding dress. It doesn’t mean your wish should be formal, basically, it depends upon the relationship you possess with the couple. If your sister is getting married then your wish is the most awaited wedding day greeting, as it is the right time to win everyone’s heart including your brother in law. Go ahead and write some comical words and make them laugh. A sarcastic and funny wedding wishes on a greeting card is another great way to congratulate your sister and brother on their wedding. This idea of writing a funny greeting and joke can also work when it’s your best friend’s wedding, you can write anything funny as you know your friend will never offend by your wish as he or she is expecting something hilarious from your side.

Let’s get ready to rumble! Congratulations wedding contestants.

There’re 3 rings of marriage that form your gift: the Engagement Ring, the Wedding Ring, and the suffeRING.

“Spending time with friends” will now be a distant memory.

It is like a give or take relationship. You either give or she knows how to take it.

That moment when you realize It is too late to RUN…

An ideal wife is any woman who has an ideal husband!

You start saying yes and hearing no often. Make it a daily habit.

Late night parties and hangouts with friends. Goodbye to all of these.

You’ve pain, You see a doctor. You marry, You’re done.

Start making it a practice to say ‘I do’. You’re getting married today!

Wedding wishes

Wishes for wedding

To a special couple who show that love can be true and forever. May your lives continue to grow in love and happiness together!

Wedding wishes for my dear friends. I hope your life together will be filled with joy, happiness and lots of love!

As you start this new journey in life, may every day hold wonderful shared experiences!

May you always remember the love shared on this special day. Wishing you a lifetime of love!

Your special day has come at last,
So make the most and have a blast!

Congratulations to you both! Have a great wedding full of precious moments which will stay with you forever.

Hope you will have a long and happy life together. Always treat each other better than you want to be treated.

May you have the wedding of your dreams and the happiest of marriages!

Weddings pass in just a day, leaving happy memories which last a lifetime. Enjoy yourselves!

I wish you a wonderful life together as you head down the road to married happiness. So happy for you!

Such great news to hear of your wedding - It couldn't happen to a nicer couple! Have a great wedding day and may your marriage be filled with wonderfully happy times.

With warm congratulations to a very special pair. May you always find in each other the love, laughter and happiness that only partners in life share!

Wishing your dreams
Begin to come true,
And every tomorrow
Be happy for you!

You two are so unique and beautiful. Just like the love you share! So happy to celebrate your wedding together with you!

Such great news to hear of your wedding - It couldn't happen to a nicer couple.

You are a wonderful couple, perfect for each other. Praying your years together are full of love, joy and blessings.

Happy wedding wishes for cards

Congratulations on finding each other! Your greatest adventure has just begun.

On this beautiful and lovely occasion I wish you a day filled with cherished moments.

Married life is a true blessing and one of life's finest gifts. Congratulations and best wishes for the future!

True love stories never end! Happy wedding day and may there be many more chapters in the wonderful story of your love for one another.

Congratulations to you both on your very special day! May your wedding be filled with special memories you can treasure forever.

Sending you the warmest wishes as you build your new lives together. May the light of your love always glow upon your marriage!

Doubt that the stars are like fire;
Doubt that the sun doesn't move;
Doubt truth to be a liar;
But never doubt your love
Best wishes for the future!

A wedding wish for two special person: love is best when shared by two. You know that together you are stronger, together you are one. Have a wonderful married life!

Congratulations on your marriage, have a wonderful life!

Weddings are like the greatest of dreams - with happy memories to last forever.

On your wedding day I wish you a lifelong Honeymoon!

Best wishes for a wonderful wedding celebration, with love and prayers for today and the future.

It couldn't have happened to a nicer couple! Have a wonderfully happy wedding day and a future full of the best that life can bring.

For richer or poorer, in sickness and in health - You make a great couple!

You are two beautiful people, now teamed as a man and a wife. Congratulations on tying the knot! Take a moment to enjoy all the special memories that you both will remember for the rest of your lives.

Congrats on finding your true love! Lean on each other's strengths and forgive each other weaknesses.

Other best wishes to wedding couple

How to write original wedding card greetings

Stuck when it comes to wedding card messages? From wedding wishes to funny comments, here’s what to write in a wedding card

We’ve all been there – you’re staring into a blank card, with all the wedding card messages in the world just out of reach, unsure what to write. Even if you’ve known the couple for years and years, what to write in a wedding card can prove a challenge.

It’s easy enough to find the perfect wedding gift for couples, but the card can prove tricky.

There are no rules when it comes to what to write in a wedding card, but here is some inspiration to help you craft the perfect message for your pals.

Wedding Cards: What You Need to Know

We’ll start with the basics – you should always give a wedding card to the happy couple. Even if you aren’t buying a gift, a card is expected to show your appreciation for your invitation, or even just to share your very best wedding wishes with the newlyweds.

Traditional wedding etiquette dictates that you should bring your wedding card to the actual wedding, or post it to the couple ahead of the big day. Most brides and grooms have post-boxes at their weddings for guests to deposit cards and well-wishes into.

Read more: 52 gorgeous gift ideas for engaged couples

Wedding Card Message for a Friend

If it’s your friend who is tying the knot, here are some examples of wedding wishes you can write to them and their partner. Remember your friend may keep this card forever so don’t just rely on flippant in-jokes.

• ‘Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness together – you deserve it!’
• ‘I couldn’t think of a better couple than you two – congratulations!’
• ‘Thank you for inviting me to share your special day – wishing you a lifetime of loveliness together.’
• ‘I’m so lucky to have two such great friends – and even luckier that they’re married to each other! Congratulations on your big day.’
• ‘We’ve celebrated so much over the years, but nothing will top this. Congratulations on your wedding day.’
• ‘I hope you bring as much happiness to each other as you’ve done to me over the years.’
• ‘Here’s to love, laughter and happily ever after!’
• ‘Wishing you both a long and happy life together – you are the perfect couple.’

Wedding Card Messages for a Sibling

It’s a special day when a sibling gets married – make sure you write a wedding card message that suits the occasion!

• ‘I always wanted a brother/sister – and now I have a brand new one! Congratulations.’
• ‘Eek, you’re officially a [LAST NAME] – are you ready for this?’
• ‘You’ve been my best friend forever and I’m so happy to see you marry your soulmate.’
• ‘You’ve found someone else to boss around – and I couldn’t be more thrilled. Congratulations (and good luck!)’
• ‘Thank you for making my brother/sister so happy – we’re so thrilled to welcome you to the family.’

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Wedding Card Message for a Family Member

If a member of your family is saying ‘I do’, you can be quite personal with your message. Here are some examples of wedding wishes for a family member to inspire you.

• ‘Our family has grown by one and we couldn’t be more excited! Congratulations!’
• ‘Welcome to the family – we hope you know what you’re letting yourself in for!’
• ‘This is a wonderful day for our family – thank you for inviting us to celebrate together.’
• ‘We’re thrilled to call you both family – here’s to a happy lifetime together.’
• ‘Congratulations on your marriage, we love both of you so much.’

‘You’ve been part of our lives for so long, but now you’re part of the family too. Welcome and congratulations!’

Wedding Card Messages for a Son or Daughter

Nothing is more emotional than seeing a son or a daughter get married to the love of your life. You’re going to feel happiness, pride and maybe even a bit of sadness. It can be hard to get down everything you’re feeling on paper, but here are a few suggestions.

• ‘We’re not losing a son/daughter – we’re gaining one. Welcome to the family.’
• ‘From the moment we saw the two of you together, we knew it was perfect. Congratulations.’
• ‘Wishing the two of you a lifetime of happiness together. We love you both.’
• ‘Words can’t describe how we feel on this day. You deserve a lifetime of happiness and wonderful moments together.’

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Wedding Card Messages for a Parent

A parent remarrying can be a tricky situation, but however you feel about the new union, it’s important to show your support to your parent and express your joy that they’ve found happiness.

• ‘Thank you for making my mum/dad so happy – congratulations on your wedding day.’
• ‘So excited that you’re officially a part of the family! Congratulations!’
• ‘Thank you so much for all you have both done for me – I’m thrilled to see you so happy.’
• ‘Wishing you all the happiness in the world – you deserve it.’

Generic Wedding Card Messages

Sometimes you don’t need such a specific wedding card message – here are some wedding card messages to suit all occasions and couples.

Here are some inspiring love quotes to help you along!

Funny Wedding Wishes

• ‘Thanks for the free food and drink – and for inviting us to celebrate your marriage of course!’
• ‘May your married life be more X-rated than PG!’
• ‘I never thought I’d see the day – but here it is! Congratulations!’
• ‘Who knew you’d find someone you love more than me, but I guess it’s official now.’

Religious Wedding Wishes

• ‘Love is patient. Love is kind… Love never fails. – 1 Corinthians 13:4-13’
• ‘May God bless you both.’
• ‘May God bless you with a long and happy life together.’
• ‘May you both be blessed.’

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Formal Wedding Wishes

• ‘Congratulations on your wedding day.’
• ‘Wishing you both all the best.’
• ‘Thank you for inviting us to share your special day.’

Remember, there’s no right or wrong rule when it comes to what you write in a wedding card, and if you’ve got a fabulous personalised wedding gift for the happy couple they’re going to be delighted – even if you just write ‘congrats!’

Written byZoe Burke

Zoe Burke is the Group Content Editor for Confetti.co.uk. As well as editing the Confetti website, Zoe also looks after two other brands, including Wedding Style Collective.