God please kill me! Take my life and let me die! Do you ever wish God would simply kill you? Do you sometimes feel so tired of this life that you.
A part of life and the hardest when it’s someone dear, these death quotes can provide you solace in your time of grieving. If you know someone that is after the recent loss of a loved one, share these insightful quotes about death to help them in their time of suffering.
Death is one of the most difficult things that any of us will have to deal with in our lives.
It is personal, unique, and very different from person to person.
Often times, people will judge the way someone else grieves because it is not the same as the way that they would personally mourn.
Some folks even go as far as to assume that someone is NOT anguished (by their definition), because they do not show it in a way that fits into this individual’s view of what grief should look like.
Here are some thoughts and quotes about death, as well as the unique view we each take of it.
1.) “Guilt is perhaps the most painful companion to death.”- Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
2.) “You will lose someone you can’t live without, and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news.
They live forever in your broken heart that doesn’t seal back up. And you come through. It’s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly — that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp.” – Anne Lamott
3.) “There is something you must always remember. you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.”- Winnie the Pooh
4.) “If I can see pain in your eyes, then share with me your tears. If I can see joy in your eyes, then share with me your smile.” – Santosh Kalwar
5.) “Deep grief sometimes is almost like a specific location, a coordinate on a map of time. When you are standing in that forest of sorrow, you cannot imagine that you could ever find your way to a better place.
But if someone can assure you that they themselves have stood in that same place, and now have moved on, sometimes this will bring hope.” – Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love
6.) “And we wept that one so lovely should have a life so brief.” – William Cullen Bryant
7.) “There is an hour, a minute – you will remember it forever – when you know instinctively on the basis of the most inconsequential evidence, that something is wrong.
You don’t know – can’t know – that it is the first of a series of “wrongful” events that will culminate in the utter devastation of your life as you have known it.”- Joyce Carol Oates, A Widow’s Story
8.) “When a friend of Abigail and John Adams was killed at Bunker Hill, Abigail’s response was to write a letter to her husband and include these words, ‘My bursting heart must find vent at my pen.’” – David McCullough
9.) “A feeling of pleasure or solace can be so hard to find when you are in the depths of your grief. Sometimes it’s the little things that help get you through the day.
You may think your comforts sound ridiculous to others, but there is nothing ridiculous about finding one little thing to help you feel good in the midst of pain and sorrow!” – Elizabeth Berrien, Creative Grieving: A Hip Chick’s Path from Loss to Hope
10.) “When your fear touches someone’s pain, it becomes pity. When your love touches someone’s pain, it becomes compassion.” – Stephen Levine
11.) “Anything that’s human is mentionable, and anything that is mentionable can be more manageable. When we can talk about our feelings, they become less overwhelming, less upsetting, and less scary.
The people we trust with that important talk can help us know that we are not alone.”- Fred Rogers
12.) “The reality is that we don’t forget, move on, and have closure. But rather we honor, we remember, and incorporate our deceased children and siblings into our lives in a new way. In fact, keeping memories of your loved one alive in your mind and heart is an important part of your healing journey.” – Harriet Schiff, author of The Bereaved Parent
13.) “What we have once enjoyed deeply we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” – Helen Keller
14.) “She was no longer wrestling with the grief, but could sit down with it as a lasting companion and make it a sharer in her thoughts.” – George Eliot
15.) “Three things in human life are important: The first is to be kind. The second is to be kind. And the third is to be kind.” – Henry James
16.) “We can endure much more than we think we can; all human experience testifies to that. All we need to do is learn not to be afraid of pain. Grit your teeth and let it hurt. Don’t deny it, don’t be overwhelmed by it. It will not last forever. One day, the pain will be gone and you will still be there.” – Harold Kushner, When All You’ve Ever Wanted Isn’t Enough
17.) “Only people who are capable of loving strongly can also suffer great sorrow, but this same necessity of loving serves to counteract their grief and heals them.” – Leo Tolstoy
18.) “Honest listening is one of the best medicines we can offer the dying and the bereaved.” – Jean Cameron (dying of cancer)
19.) “When he died, all things soft and beautiful and bright would be buried with him.” ― Madeline Miller, The Song of Achilles
20.) “But she wasn’t around, and that’s the thing when your parents die, you feel like instead of going into every fight with backup, you are going into every fight alone.” ― Mitch Albom, For One More Day
21.) “Sadly enough, the most painful goodbyes are the ones that are left unsaid and never explained.”
― Jonathan Harnisch, Freak
22.) “The death of a beloved is an amputation.” — C. S. Lewis
23.) “For as long as the world spins and the earth is green with new wood, she will lie in this box and not in my arms. “— Lurlene McDaniel
24.) “If the people we love are stolen from us, the way to have them live on is to never stop loving them.” —James O’Barr
25.) “When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.“ – Kahlil Gibran
26.) “Unable are the loved to die. For love is immortality.” – Emily Dickinson
27.) “Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.” – Unknown
28.) “What is lovely never dies, but passes into other loveliness.” – Thomas Bailey
29.) “You give yourself permission to grieve by recognizing the need for grieving. Grieving is the natural way of working through the loss of a love. Grieving is not weakness nor absence of faith. Grieving is as natural as crying when you are hurt, sleeping when you are tired or sneezing when your nose itches. It is nature’s way of healing a broken heart.” – Doug Manning
30.) “For some moments in life there are no words.”- David Seltzer, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory (1971 film adaptation)
30.) “Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.” – Norman Cousins
31.) “One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it’s worth watching.” – Unknown
32.) “Some people are so afraid to die that they never begin to live.” – Henry van Dyke
33.) “It is as natural to die as it is to be born.” – Francis Bacon
34.) “All men think that all men are mortal but themselves.” – Edward Young
35.) “To fear death is to misunderstand life.” – Unknown
36.) “Why should I fear death? If I am, death is not. If death is, I am not. Why should I fear that which cannot exist when I do?”—Epicurus
37.) “If life must not be taken too seriously, then so neither must death”—Samuel Butler
38.) “Death can come at any age, but the pride of life fools a person into thinking that day is far away.” – John Buttrick
39.) “None of us knows the day of our death. However, if we knew that death is actually our acquisition, we would remove the fear of death from our lives.” – Sunday Adelaja
40.) “It is the secret of the world that all things subsist and do not die, but retire a little from sight and afterwards return again.”—Ralph Waldo Emerson
41.) “Death is but a door, time is but a window. I’ll be back!”—Ghostbusters II
42.) “Death is nature’s way of saying, ‘Your table is ready.’”— Robin Williams
43.) “Men fear death, as if unquestionably the greatest evil, and yet no man knows that it may not be the greatest good.” – William Mitford
44.) “I do not fear death. I had been dead for billions and billions of years before I was born, and had not suffered the slightest inconvenience from it.”— Mark Twain
45.) “The truth I have been seeking — this truth is Death. Yet Death is also a seeker. Forever seeking me. So — we have met at last. And I am prepared. I am at peace.”— Bruce Lee
46.) “We go to the grave of a friend saying, “A man is dead,” but angels throng about him saying, “A man is born.” – Henry Ward Beecher
47.) “The death of a friend is equivalent to the loss of a limb.” – German Proverb
48.) “Those we love never truly leave us, Harry. There are things that death cannot touch.” ― Jack Thorne
49.) “But fate ordains that dearest friends must part.” – Edward Young
50.) “This passion, and the death of a dear friend, would go near to make a man look sad.” – William Shakespeare
51.) “Even the best of friends cannot attend each other’s funeral.” – Kehlog Albran
52.) “You cannot stop loving your friend because he’s dead, especially if he was better than anyone alive, you know?”-Jerome Salinger
53.) “When our friends are alive, we see the good qualities they lack; dead, we remember only those they possessed.” – Jean Antoine Petit-Senn
54.) “If you ever lose someone dear to you, never say the words they’re gone. They’ll come back.” ― Prince
55.) “How can the dead be truly dead when they still live in the souls of those who are left behind?”—Carson McCullers
56.) “Death is a challenge. It tells us not to waste time. It tells us to tell each other right now that we love each other.” Leo Buscaglia
57.) “We all die. The goal isn’t to live forever, the goal is to create something that will.”— Chuck Palahniuk
58.) “I am prepared to meet my Maker. Whether my Maker is prepared for the great ordeal of meeting me is another matter.”— Winston Churchill
59.) “Death is something inevitable. When a man has done what he considers to be his duty to his people and his country, he can rest in peace.”— Nelson Mandela
60.) “Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose.”— Steve Jobs
61.) “No one really knows why they are alive until they know what they’d die for.” – Martin Luther King Jr
62.) “I’m not afraid of death because I don’t believe in it. It’s just getting out of one car, and into another.” – John Lennon
63.) “A fact of life we all die. But the positive impact you have on others will be a living legacy.” – Catherine Pulsifer
64.) “I want to be thoroughly used up when I die for the harder I work the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake.” – George Bernard Shaw
65.) “No one here gets out alive.” – Jim Morrison
66.) “Death is an ending. Death is a closing. Death is idle words in the ebb and flow of life.”- Elizabeth Edwards
67.) “To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die.” – Thomas Campbell
68.) “Life asked death, ‘Why do people love me but hate you?’ Death responded, ‘Because you are a beautiful lie and I am a painful truth.”—Author unknown
69.) “I would rather die a meaningful death than to live a meaningless life.” –Corazon Aquino
70.) “I am not afraid of death, I just don’t want to be there when it happens.” – Woody Allen
71.) “While I thought that I was learning how to live, I have been learning how to die.” – Leonardo da Vinci
72.) “Death is not the end of life; it is the beginning of an eternal journey.” – Debasish Mridha
73.) “Not only is death inevitable; death is necessary for us to inherit the new life we are to enjoy in Christ.” – Max Lucado
74.) “Death is nothing else but going home to God, the bond of love will be unbroken for all eternity.” – Mother Teresa
75.) “To die will be an awfully big adventure.” – Peter Pan
76.) “Death is only the end if you assume the story is about you”—Welcome to Night Vale
77.) “The boundaries which divide Life from Death are at best shadowy and vague. Who shall say where the one ends, and the other begins?”—Edgar Allan Poe
78.) “Death is nothing, but to live defeated and inglorious is to die daily.” –Napoleon Bonaparte
79.) “Life is for the living. Death is for the dead. Let life be like music. And death a note unsaid.” – Langston Hughes
80.) “Good men must die, but death cannot kill their names.” – Proverb
81.) “The idea is to die young as late as possible.” – Ashley Montagu
82.) “Life is like a very short visit to a toy shop between birth and death.” – Desmond Morris
83.) “It is nothing to die. It is frightful not to live.” – Victor Hugo
84.) “The day which we fear as our last is but the birthday of eternity.” – Seneca
85.) “As soon as you’ll realize that it was a gift, you’ll be free.” – Maxime Lagacé
86.) “Death is not the biggest fear we have; our biggest fear is taking the risk to be alive – the risk to be alive and express what we really are.” – Miguel Angel Ruiz
87.) “There is only one god and his name is Death, and there is only one thing we say to Death: ‘Not today’.” – Syrio Forel
89.) “After your death, you will be what you were before your birth.” – Arthur Schopenhauer
90.) “Death ends a life, not a relationship.” – Mitch Albom
91.) “Life is too short when you think of the length of death.”― Sean Mangan
92.) “Death, so called, is a thing which makes men weep, And yet a third of life is passed in sleep.”― Lord George Gordon Byron
93.) “We are born in one day. We die in one day. We can change in one day. And we can fall in love in one day. Anything can happen in just one day.”― Gayle Forman
94“The hour of departure has arrived, and we go our separate ways, I to die, and you to live. Which of these two is better only God knows.”
95.) “She had been given a wonderful gift: life. Sometimes it was cruelly taken away too soon, but it’s what you did with it that counted, not how long it lasted.”― Cecelia Ahern
96.) “You were born a child of light’s wonderful secret— you return to the beauty you have always been.”― Aberjhani
97.) “It never gets easier, missing you. And sometimes I wonder if it ever will.”― Heather Brewer
98.) “The dead could only speak through the mouths of those left behind, and through the signs they left scattered behind them.”― Robert Galbraith
99.) “Last words are always harder to remember when no one knows that someone’s about to die.”― John Green
100.) “Death is unstoppable. One must face it as a fact of life.”― D. Aswini
101.) “Everybody know death is inevitably coming , but it never fails to catch everybody by surprise everytime one is going.”― Hlovate
102.) “It’s not contagious, you know. Death is as natural as life. It’s part of the deal we made.”― Mitch Albom
103.) “It’s all God’s will: you can die in your sleep, and God can spare you in battle.”― Leo Tolstoy
104.) “Death does not concern us, because as long as we exist, death is not here. And when it does come, we no longer exist.”― Epicurus
105.) “When the time comes to die, make sure that all you have to do is die!”― Jim Elliot
Something we should all remember is that each and everyone of us grieves in a different way.
Each one of us has a different memory and relationship with the person who has passed away.
While some grieve openly, (others keep it to themselves) and put on a stoic face.
The important lesson to learn is that death and grief are very unique and individual processes. What is right for us may not fit another.
Hopefully, these quotes about death will help you embrace and grieve as you need to, and let others do the same.
What do you think about these death quotes? Do you have any other inspirational quotes to add? Let us know in the comment section below.
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It's often been claimed that "No one died wishing they spent more time at the office."
That doesn't comport with some of my friends and colleagues. But that's anecdotal so, for this article, I reviewed all 3,500 entries in the book, Last Words of Notable People.
While many people's last words are religious, about their spouse, ending their pain, or that dying feels good, enough speak about wishing they could work more to cast doubt on, "No one died wishing they spent more time at the office."
Whether or not we choose to work more, it certainly seems we should be more accepting of diversity of how people choose to live their lives rather than pathologize work-centric people as "workaholic" or "out of balance." Indeed, per my anecdotal experience and the names on the following list, many highly contributory people, already lifelong hard workers, wished they had worked more or could work more.
Of course, people with less potential for accomplishment might well feel that work-life balance is wiser.
In any event, here are two dozen people's last words that suggest they wish they had "spent more time at the office" or at least that work, not pleasure, relationships, nor spirituality, was on their mind at that final moment
Isaac Babel, Russian anti-Stalin activist: "I am only asking for one thing--Let me finish my work."
George Beard, American physician: "I hope others will carry on my work."
Olavo Bilac, Brazilian activist and writer: "Get me coffee. I'm going to write."
Jerry Boyd, U.S. boxer and writer: "Doc, get me a little more time. I gotta finish my book."
Francois-Paul Brueys d'Aigalliers, French admiral: "An admiral ought to die giving orders."
Buddha: "Strive with earnestness."
Robert Burton, Oxford University Vicar: "Be not idle."
George Catlin, American artist: "What will happen to my gallery?"
Jane Arminda Delano, American nurse: "What about my work? I must get back to my work!"
Louis Desaix de Veygoux, French nobleman: "My only regret in dying is to have perished before having done enough to live in the recollection of posterity."
Edith Hamilton, American historian: "I haven't felt up to writing but now I think I am going to finish that book on Plato."
Sidney Herbert, British statesman: "I have not done all I wished..."
Katsushika Hokusai, Japanese artist: "If Heaven had only granted me five more years, I could have become a real painter."
Hubert Humphrey, U.S. Vice President: "I feel I have so much to do yet."
Albert Michelson, American physicist:: "The following is a report on the measurement of the velocity of light made at the Irvine..."
Edmund Husserl, German philosopher: "Oh, I've seen something wonderful. Quick, write it down!"
Guillaume Lekeu, Belgian composer. "So many works unfinished---My quartet!"
Huey Long, Governor of Louisiana: "Don't let me die. I have so much to do."
Maria Montessori, founder of Montessori schools, at 81: "Am I no longer of use?"
Pablo Picasso at 91: "And now I must go back to work." He painted that night until 3 AM and then died.
Pope Pius XI at 82 having been pope for 17 years: "I still have so many things to do."
Charles Sumner, abolitionist: "You must take care of the bill, my bill, the great civil rights bill, and don't let it fail!"
Elisabeth Ten Boom, World War II Dutch resistance figure: "So much work to do."
Osamu Tezuka, Japanese manga artist: "I'm begging you, let me work!"
What do I hope my last words will be? "Barbara, I love you. And keep doing true good, lots of true good."
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Death is the permanent cessation of all biological functions that sustain a living, physical organism. Death may refer to the end of life as either an event or condition. In many cultures and in the arts, death is considered a being or otherwise personified, wherein it is usually capitalized as "Death".
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For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives.
People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality. I learnt never to underestimate someone’s capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them.
When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common five:
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.
It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.
2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.
By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.
We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.
It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It all comes down to love and relationships in the end. That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.
When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.
Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.
Based around this article, Bronnie has released a full length book titled The Top Five Regrets of the Dying – A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing. It is a memoir of her own life and how it was transformed through the regrets of the dying people she cared for. This inspiring memoir has been read by more than a million people worldwide, with translations in 32 languages. More information about regret-free living is available here.
“Before you can live a part of you has to die. You have to let go of what could have been, how you should have acted and what you wish you would have said .